Do you hate someone that you can't hardly forgive?
By jbelle
@jbelle (912)
Philippines
June 18, 2007 8:31pm CST
Yes I have, she was my bestfriend way back college years, it's almost 7 years but it seem that i can't forgive her. She betrayed me. I consider her more than my sister, a mentor and she was been my confidante. She told my boyfriend about my shortcomings in our relationship. Eventually i lost my beloved boyfriend that time. I believe that she doesn't have the right to meddle in our relationship. She must talk to me first and not directly telling it to my boyfriend. I believe that even our divine creator can forgive us in all our sins but i can't easilyforgive her until now maybe time can tell and I am praying for it that time will come that I can forget and forgive what she had done to me, its only a way of knowing what kind of friend she was. Do you hate someone? That not easy to forgive? Who is that person and why do you hate that person?
2 responses
@angela2006 (1845)
• China
25 Jun 07
to be honest with you,I do not have.but your condition is hard,your friend are not worth forgiving,and in my opinion,she can not be registerd as your best friend.
@KatieS (503)
• United States
19 Jun 07
Forgiveness is really hard, I know, but it's inevitable. It's required whether we like it or not as believers. I'm having issues with my father right now, I won't get into it because it's too personal and heartbreaking, but I'm having a hard time myself forgiving him. But I know I must before my judgement day comes, and I will not know when that will be so it has to be soon. Your friend might have saved you from a bad relationship, you will never know. At least now you know what you can trust her with, and it may have been a small price to pay for your experience. Good Luck jbelle!!
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
No, I think she don't care about my feelings, I really love my boyfriend but she destroy me to my boyfried. does she see joy in my misery? Anyway I'll pray for you and your father coz whatever happens he is your father, you must thank him he gave you life...
