when you feel sad,you look forward to whose comfort?

Hi fengbo girl,lol... When I was a little girl, dad is the person whom I used to hug with when I feel sad and unhappy. If he was busy with his work then I would only hug my teddy bear and told him all my unpleasant stories. When I was in middle school my parents were working out station and I used to wrote all my unhappiness and sadness in my dairy. Then I would hug my dairy and went to bed. When I found my loved one he was the one to let me rest on his chest whenever I was in a melancholy mood. My hubby, of course always hugs me and comforts me whenever I feel depressed. All my unhappiness and sadness will soon disappear in such a warmed hug with tender concer.

ya to share everything it cannot be parent as they tend to get anxious .for me it's my battery of friends that keeps me going through the rough patch of time.Friends or my love is what keeps me ticking. :)

When I need comfort, I generally need to be on my own. I find it the easiest way to chill out, relax, and think things through. Maybe it's because I'm an only child - I'm not that used to having people around me, and I find it easier to think and sort my head out when I'm alone. I will just listen to music, or maybe go for a walk in the fresh air, and I always feel better.

usually i comfort my friends on phone when they are tired and depressed..so i call them also when i feel lonely or have a fight with my boyfriend.. i also talk to my boyfriend when u feel low and need comfort and things go well but when he is very busy and i have no one to talk to i just have a couple of drinks and watch television.. i also come on mylot and share things with the people here like today i was feeling very bored and lonely so i am spending time here.. i have discovered that the best remedy is to talk to friends and go out with them when you feel depressed...they always are there for us and after all "A friend in need is a friend Indeed"

Sometimes my friends or my mom but mostly my boyfriend. I mostly seek for my boyfriend's comfort.

I agree with you .If it happen to me ,i want my boyfriend comfort me .Because i study in another city and my family members are not living with me .If i feel sad ,i will not tell them about it,because i do not want them to worry about me.

It used to be my parents, then my husband and now, depending on why I'm sad it could be one of my girls or occasionally, still my husband.

I usally talk to a friend when I am upset but this is understandable wanting someone that you love to comfort you when you are sad or upset.I wish I could find the same thing.

When i am sad, i look forward to my mother to comfort me. If my mother is not there, i would look forward to my friends.

when sadness fills my heart..of course its my family who always comforts me especially my siblings..their hugs and kisses always makes me feel good.. and also,my friends helps me to ease the pain that i am feeling..they always made me laugh when i am sad,give pieces of advices..and my special someone also..he's the clown of my life and he dont want to see me sad,so he always do everything to make me happy..and i am so thankful to God because he gave me those people who were always been there for me..

I think that when I am not happy, I will tell my boyfriend. Very often, he can give me a good comfort, especially when a friend and I get along are not happy or aggrieved, I would ask him to air their grievances. He usually will support me, and he will find a way to make my happy. I really am very grateful to him I needed him in the time he can on my side gave me comfort and encouragement.

When I feel sad, I will talk to my husband. As he is a very close person to me. I hope to get some comfort from his side. I won't share it with my dad and mom as I don't want they are worried about me. I will pretend everything is fine.

it really varies with me. although most times i would want to be alone with my sadness, as i need to absorb and accept it that i wallow on my feelings. if i have already attained a good cry, i'd be okay and be comforted with my stillness, with my aloneness with my god and with myself. there are also times when i would need my family, especially if the sadness is commonly shared. and then there are times when i really want to share my sadness, disappointments to a friend - someone with whom i trust to accept everything that i think and say for the moment without judgment, someone who can be an ally to affirm, support, and catch my fallen soul, someone who will not laugh afterwards if i made a mess for crying out loud. i think i am fortunate of having these varied environments whenever i need them the most especially in my moments of sadness.

hehe.....you know,I look forword my girlfriend's comfort.when I feel sad,I will communicate with her,and she will give me some suggests or play a joke on me.then I will be happy and forget the borong things quickly.

I talk to my mom or my sister. I watch tv or hang out with friends. I usually get sad because usually I do things that turned out not what I expected. It is just frustration sometimes and make me depressed. My comfort is my mom most of the time.

when i feel sad, i look forward to my lover's comfort. Yes, parents are the most important person you can trust, but always you can't tell everything to your parents,for generation gap, they can't understand every thing you do, but for a lover, you are in the same generation, you have same words, and your lover is the people who can compare with you in all of your life. But, remember that, your maybe divorce with you, but your parents won't

I used to run to my husband when I needed comfort. It has gotten to the point that when I cry now he just ignores it. So now when I need comfort I go to my family and friends.

When I'm feeling sad, I always look for my parents' comfort...they are the first one who know if I have a problem or something bothering me. My boyfriend also gives me comfort whenever I feel lonely...but most of the times he's also the reason why I feel blue...T.T...kkk...because we are living in different cities nd I missed him most of the time.

Hi, When I feel sad, for me too , my husband only comforts me. If I am with my parents, then they will. But now my husband will comfort me. He knows everything what I think and what I feel. If I feel sad, then also, he observes me and asks what happened. If I tell nothing is there and I am not feeling sad, then also he wouldnt believe. After I tell to him , what happened exactly, he consoles me, whatever the situaiton. I like him very much. I love my love very much.

My lover, of course. I always don't want to let my parents know my sadness when i am in trouble. However, I think lover is a good object to confide.