does age matter when you're in a relationship?
By JEPA87
@JEPA87 (4)
United States
June 18, 2007 11:34pm CST
how old should the age gap be when you're in a relationship? does age really matter or not? share your opinions please.
4 responses
@maybel13 (205)
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
For me, age matters. What I mean is that, I do believe that a relationship will work out if there's an gap between a couple. I prefer older partner. Well, I'm talking as based on my experience. I started having a relationship when I was in college. Most of them are just as my age. But it all didn't work out. Because I want a serious relationship. And all of them just want some fun because they're not mature enough yet. When I met my hubby, it changes my entire life. Until now we're still together because i think we're a perfect although. But I did't say it's a perfect relationship. We also quarrel a lot, but we can manage to fix it. Maybe because of the love that we built up and the experiences we've been through. For me, our relationship is really a treasure.
@sweetmimzim3 (261)
• United States
19 Jun 07
I was thinking the very same thing myself.. today. My boyfriend is 32 and I am 38. He seems mature and we think alike. Somewhere in the back of my mind I have hopes that the age difference won't cause problems later on. My idea is that true love will prevail over this issue, and won't pose a huge problem if we are compatible emotionally. I guess the answer isn't so much the number as the "who".
@shen23 (126)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
for me, totally age didn't matter.. why ?? because love comes in a right time, which you didn't expect. love comes no matter what.. love doesn't look for the age difference.. i got married last Sept 2006 and i was 22 yrs old at that time, and my husband aged 55 yrs old at that day also, as that is his birthday.. and i'm always happy with him. he makes my life so meaningful.. he make me feel to be loved..