ur bf has "wandering eyes"
By dredinethis
@dredinethis (68)
Philippines
June 19, 2007 12:55am CST
I really really hate it, i can't help but to fight with my bf everytime he glances to girls wen we are together..there was this time when we were walking and were talking sweetly then all of a sudden evrything turned out sour on me when a very sexy woman came in front of us.. i was just observing his expressions trying to pretend i didn't notice anything yet my nerves started to shake when he seems like tensed with eyes opend wide while glancing on her evrynow and then so i just wlakd away and left him, that's really an insult to me grrr but still everytime i do that coiz it already happened many times still he chases me coz he knows I'm prettier than them hehe...I've decided to look even mr pretttier evrytime we meet but it doesn't help he still has this wandering eye and that discourages me..And i think guys like that has this urge to become unfaithful... i don't know what to do
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3 responses
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Whoah! That's not a good habit, I suppose you're a bit selfish for that reason. You should stop thinking like that, it's not a good practice. As I can see, you're beautiful. You should understand your boyfriend more, maybe he just appreciate women's beauty more. It's not a crime just to stare, and you cannot be sure also of his feelings just by his actions. Try to observe him, maybe you just don't notice that he too acts like that in front of you.
Talk to him, talk in a proper way and understand each other. I believe your guy loves you, but try not to be more demanding.
@dredinethis (68)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
i talked to him already..but i can't hide my feelings whenever he do that, other girls might think he isn't contented with me; girls perpective are really different...it's really not a problem but it depends on how the guy looks at a girl, you knw what i mean:(.. But i know you are also right thanks for the comment..
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Just to be fair, don't think of what others think of you or him. If your bf had a previous record of cheating, then that's the time you should be more worried about him.
I hope that both of you would make things more easier, always try to put other's very own perspective.
Thanks and wish you both the best!;)
@Nykkee (2522)
• Canada
24 Jun 07
What a stupid turd. He doesn't sound like a ver considerate boyfriend. I totally understand how to feel, it's a great show of disrespect for him to look at other women in front of you or at all if he is committed to you. I have had some friends that I have seen do some really mean things to thier boyfriends for staring at other girls, like light thier shoe lace on fire because they are too distracted to notice, and then when they notice point out if the hadn't been stareing they would have noticed and it wouldn't have happened. But what I would recommend to try is this, keep looking your best, everyone feels better when they are happy with how they look, but anyway make sure you look great and then do it back to him. Stare at other guys, stare so hard you miss everything he is saying while he is talking to you, smile and the other guys, do everything you can to make him jealous and feel how he makes you feel without crossing the cheating line and then when he finally gets upset and says something about it just tell him, "It doesn't feel very nice does it?" Maybe if he could feel how he is making you feel he would make more of an effort to be a better boyfriend.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
23 Jun 07
I do not know how you feel coz I do not mind if my bf watches other people coz I trust him and his love for me. I know that he will be coming home to me.
Just because you are in a relationship doesnt mean that u will never ever be attracted to someone else again. As long as he is just looking thats what its all about =)
I am sure u look as well if a gorgeous man walks by :-)
