where to search for love?
By hollowheart
@hollowheart (1572)
India
13 responses
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
19 Jun 07
love cant be searched its something which comes to you...you shouldnt go for it anywhere or find it.
may be the one you are finding will be the lady next door to you and u may not recognise her.
love is precious and you should find a true love and not a time pass love as you are sounding to get.
can u tell some qualities that u are finding in your partner.
why dont you check in ur college or localty you will surely get someone.
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
19 Jun 07
fine then i think you dont need love instead you need a true friend who listens to you every time,understands you and know your every little needs.how sweet.....
i think you should start with your neighbourhood....just start with a hi then it will go itself ....you dont have to do much then.
atleast start talking to them.....then speak your dislikes and likes to them .....if they change themselves for you then she is the perfect one u r finding of.best of luck for that!
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 Jun 07
Sure i will try. But i am really scared, what if they misunderstand my approach? moreover I am bad looking so they would not probably like to even reply back. And even might move aside by showing as if they are too busy and cant talk to me and avoid me always. Thats what i have been facing 27 yrs.
Well in that case would you like to have me as your friend?
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 Jun 07
Well friend i think you got me right. Actually I am very lonely and i need someone beside me with whom I could share every bit of my life. Hopwever i would need to marry the one my parents select so it could sound as the time pass. As you said in my locality there are lts of girls but i dont know hoe wo approach sopecially whrn i see them in groups or with other men. I dont like it. I want someone who is also wanting love but is not getting. So that both of us ge someone to speak to, share our feelingsm, emotion, problems. I speak to very few people. Mostly its on mylot. thats it.
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
Hello hollowheart!(",)
Your avatar is really nice because I like Mr. Bean.lolz
With regards to your question, in order to find love you have to seek the source of love. God is the source of love. If you find Him, you will know what love truly is.(",)
Great day to you!
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
21 Jun 07
Thanks Lani. I love Mr Bean too much.
thanks for your suggestion/
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Lols! You v=cant just find it in the store my dear... And nowhere you can buy it. There is no exact place that I can say that you will find what you are looking for. Love is a one word with a thousand qualities wrap inside it. And you cant have it with a flick of your finger... it takes time to develop...there is no shortcut.. the more you hurry the more you will loose it... begins with friendship, then admiration... somehow turns into love. There is no assurance though...and there is no guarantee... only chances.
You have to gamble... coz thats the only way... after that if nothing happens dont get tired...
LET YOURSELF GROW AND MATURE...coz in time that you are really ready for commitment... GOD will give you what you are searching more than you expect....
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Yes I want you to be y fiend... just keep the faith and dont get tired...
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 Jun 07
Very well said my friend. WELL AS YOU SAID YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE ME AS YOUR FRIEND.i WOULD ALSO BE VERY SUPPORTIVE AND HELPFUL. i AM REALLY IN NEED OF A TRUE FRIEND, MORE THAN LOVE AND MAY BE THAT FRIEND WOULD GET MY LOVE.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Are you serious?
then go to a dating website. and look for your desired women out there.
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@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 Jun 07
hI SMM, I REALLY HOPE I BUMP INTO MY LOVE VERY SOON. HAHAHAHA. bUT I STILL HAVE A QUESTION. Why are we not supposed to search for love?
@mike2003 (287)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
You can search for it. You just have to distinguish whether that is love or lust...hahaha....You can find love everywhere , anywhere. Some people say not to search for it and that it will find you but that just does not work.It won't come to you..you have to search for it my friend...
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 Jun 07
hi mike. Thanks for the response. But at the moment i am in a Dialemma as I dont kow what to do. Weather to listen to you ir the majoruty.
I think i would ned to sit and decide and then go ahead.
@mrddln (457)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
what is love?
love is no guarantee! hwat you need to know before you fall in love
what does it mean when you say to someone I love you?
there are many answers and interpretations to this question, but when asked, the majority of people said that love is something they feel but cannot explain in words.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 Jun 07
Love is really vast so cant be expressed in words. every one has their own way of sensing it. i HAVE BEEN IN LOVE BEFORE UT SHE LEFT ME.
i AM LONELY SINCE THEN.
@mrddln (457)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
how long does it take to get over infidelity?
for those of you who really loved someone and decided to stay with your partner after discovering infidelity, how long did it take for the feeling of anger, hurt and betrayal to go way? i stayed with my partner who cheated me. And so far, its been almost one year and the feelings of hurt are still there.
@aaamm3003 (398)
• India
20 Jun 07
hey friend if you are really looking for a real love you dont have to go anywhere it will come to you as the time come so have patience
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 Jun 07
Thanks kawaii. but i realy doubt that love would ever find me or i would ever find love atleast in this birth. Sure I would keep trying and waiting but then, its too painful, too depressive and jus brings tears..
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
19 Jun 07
love is everywhere, to start searching for love then start to search for it within you.. search your heart for it, search your soul, your imagination.. then search in the loving eyes that stare at you, then in the smiles, then in the winks.. you'll find it every where..
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 Jun 07
well thanks my friend. It sounds nice but too tough to decide where to start and how to start. :)
