How do you split up with a guy??

It's not easy to split up with someone who you really love. If i have to split up with a guy I'll make it sure it's reasonable and the truth. I will tell the truth no matter how painful it is.

it is a painful decision but you have to make it,if love doesn't there between you. we can live in this world only once,i don't want to have a wrong marriage which will totally ruin my whole life.so be careful.say no if you find him or her is not suit for you. anyone of you should take the responsibility of both your life in the future.dont let your hesitation stop your way toward real happiness

Sorry, but as a guy, I have to tell you what I prefer to get--- The direct approach in private, or at least close to it. Not over the phone, not in front of your friends, (or his), just one on one, here it is.

Well, all I can say is... everybody has the right to break up someone as long as we dont feel the flame anymore.It is either a girl or a guy could split up, then its okay. Each of us has the right to find our real happiness and look forward of moving on. It would be unfair if you will still be with that person but all you really want is to kick him out of your life. We always have choices, and they have choices either. And ignoring a person whom you want to forget is one way of moving on. Because you cant surely move on if you are still clinging on his presence. Say goodbye if you want to, then say hello if you feel too. Girls be smart!