what shall i do?

I salute you for being so brave in telling to the man you love about your true feeling for him. I am just sad that your love had not begot love but still for me it is just right that you tell him without thinking of the consequence. Just learn to accept what he feels for you is not the same as to how you feel for him. I pray for you.

Well, I guess I have a similar predicament as you. I met a man 4 years ago. I kind of knew it was one way in a certain way but he is just so right for husband material. So we started out but it got boring after a few years. At first, I thought love can be built up over time but I really am lost now. We are no longer together and he still treats me very nice like a princess. I feel as if I have done something so wrong but I am so confused that I just left it at that. We still talk sometimes but sigh... what to do...

sorry to hear that, I think it's really hard time for you now. but I should say, just let him go. you can't get anything if he does not love you. just like what you said, it's a one-side love. maybe you are not the only girl who loves him, but love is a myterious thing. he might regard you just as a good friend, not a lover. Real love needs the effort of both sides. I think that he avoids meeting you just to give you a polite reject to your love. so why push yourself in this kind of bothering issue. there are many good boys in the world, and maybe it's not the right time for you to come across your "Mr right". just let yourself do something else, and make more friends. when it's the time, your "Mr right" will come to you.