Where are you supposed to go?
By FSCAries
@FSCAries (881)
United States
June 19, 2007 9:15pm CST
I am a single girl and I do not like to frequent the bar scene much, ESPECIALLY when single, so where are you supposed to go to meet people? I'm not to fond of the idea of meeting people online, because you never really know who you are talking to, but I've graduated from college and I'm working in a business that's just my mom and I, and I can't figure out how to meet a decent guy for the life of me. Any suggestions?
2 responses
@buzzmonster (250)
• Australia
21 Jun 07
As cliche as it is, if it happens, it happens. You can't go out looking for someone - you don't get value by doing that. It needs to happy gradually, by chance, serendipity, if you will.
Good luck - i'm sure you'll be back on here in a few months with a great story!
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 07
Hi, FSCAries!
You don't have to worry too much about looking for your Mr. Right. When the time comes, he will come to you without even you knowing it. Just pray to God, that the right person will come to you in the near future. I can understand your situation. I think you are yearning so much to meet people, as many as you can so that you can find your Mr. Right. (correct me if I am wrong and I am sorry if I unintentionally hurt your pride)
As for myself, I get married quite late. I did look for Mr. Right before but unfortunately, I was not the type of girl who loves to go out, meeting people or spending my times at the bars and so on. So like you, I was wondering too, whether I would find my Mr. Right or not. I chatted a lot last time, not that I wanted too much to know people but it was the best way for me to spend my time. I was lonely and at the end, I decided to move on with my life. Whether I will find my man or not, it doesn't matter to me anymore. I was ready to live as a single woman for the rest of my life (my mom was angry at me and was busy looking for her future son-in-law)
God must have listen to my prayers. I met my husband accidentally. We don't even think of getting married at first. Just normal friends. But, maybe he is my Mr. Right and we are happily married with a cute baby son now!
Hope you will also find yours!