so my graduation party is called off because .. =\

i think i would need more information and to actually know the situation. i know teens tend to be over-reactive and rash in decision making...yet i also know that graduation is an extremely important milestone, one my own son just experienced. i hope you were responsible enough to give her a notice when stopping watching her child as it wasn't any of the childs doing so the child shouldn't be involved in any way. it was a job and you shouldn't just quit out of anger and give no notice, that is irresponsible and you are an adult in training who is supposed to be developing good habits for your own lifes future. i see nothing wrong with you moving back in with your dad and deciding what to do with your future from there. as for the embarrassment of moving the party, is it really that big of a deal? i know i didn't care whose house a party was at as long as my friends were there and we were having fun. i think she was wrong to cancel your party yet it's her house and she has that right. you can't control what she does but you can control your own reaction to what she does. how did moving in with her to begin with ruin your life?? i think that just sounds like a drama moment and not actuality. you are young and nothing is ruined in your life except maybe your current mood, which will pass enjoy your graduation, enjoy your party at your aunts house, reconnect with your dad while you live with him now, and figure out your future, don't let her actions fester and make you sour.