Do you talk loudly are softly

i have the capability to speak in a loud voice but i will always talk in a humour ans slow voice .i like to speak in that way only .thank you

I think if you want to show autority you should speak louder, but if you want to show love, tender you should probably speak softly. Because you might scare your family member with your loudly words, probably when your realy upset of something it might get out of your mouth some loudly words but I don't think so...