"love is selfish",do you think so?

China
June 20, 2007 2:56am CST
when we fall in love with somebody,then we want to have him,to live along with him for all our life.I think no one can share his lover with others,so love is selfish,do you think so?
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@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
it really depends. there are some people who doesn't want to let go of the one they love even though it will break the heart of the one they love. there are people too who will sacrifice their own happiness for the one they love.
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• China
28 Jun 07
yes,true love does not mean only possession.
@Marsam (13)
• Saudi Arabia
20 Jun 07
Yes ofcourse, he must only love you.. But love is not selfish..Love of couples is diffrent. You can have only one heart to love.. Thats why, it should be only one. But loving his parents, friends, realtives is diffrent. Being selfish means, you are only concern of your self. You are only thinking for your benefits.. thats selfishness.
• China
21 Jun 07
haha,I mean that kind of love-romantic love!
@healer (1779)
• India
20 Jun 07
When we care for someone and when we get the same that we have given them than love becomes rude in a way. Both the lovers becomes pocessive so thats not selfish actually but wanting to have him or her more everyday and everywhere. We don't want the person that we love to be involved with others as we are afraid that he or she might fall into him or her, this arises when they are emotionally involve with one another and its sweet.
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@healer (1779)
• India
22 Jun 07
Thanks for making this as the best response. Good luck to you in the future.
@2babita (1072)
• India
22 Jun 07
Yes, I agree with you we dont want to share them with anybody.
@wawalim (10)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 07
When we have fall in love in with someone, of cuz, we doesn't want to let him/ her go. it's the natural behavior from within. So, if we really love someone, no matter what happens, i think we will never let it go, or even share it with others. :P
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@shen23 (126)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
yea i guess. coz about me, i am selfish when it comes to my husband,.. i don't want anybody to share with. well no doubt about my husband though, he is so sincere in me, so faithful also.. that's why i salute my husband's faithfulness and honesty..
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• China
21 Jun 07
yes,sometimes,if other female talk a lot to him,I will feel unhappy,haha.
• India
20 Jun 07
no i dnt think so.....love is jst 2 give not 2 take......
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jun 07
I agree with you. Love can not be shared, even if that's your best friend. Love more than one person leads to many troubles.
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
20 Jun 07
love is not selfish. It may be possesive but never selfish.
@jackli (203)
• China
20 Jun 07
yeah. i agree u about it. the love between lovers is very selfish. I think every maybe be selfish about it ,including me. lol.