Own it! If you have courage!!!
By kamran12
@kamran12 (5526)
Pakistan
June 20, 2007 5:03am CST
I started a discussion about Mylot Gangs a week ago and responded to a similar discussion a couple of days ago and since then my rating has come down 5 points. I want to let you know that it doesn’t matter to me. I would, however, like to know that who is doing it. If you are a man, then behave like a man and own it! If you are a woman then have courage to step forward. I have had some enemies in my life and they were great. The greatest point about them was that they faced me and always had courage to look into my eyes.
I really don’t like and respect coward people. I don’t like mean enemies. I would really appreciate your courage, whoever it is. I won’t come after you like you do. I won’t rate you negative. I am giving you this opportunity to step forward and win my respect.
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5 responses
@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
20 Jun 07
Good Afternoon Kamran :)) and Welcome to as the MYLOT Turns :)) you have been inducted now into the real class of mylot. I am one of those that share in the beatings that are given to ratings around here. It really bothered me with I first went one day from a 10 to a 7. I got over it pretty quickly. It does not stop me from voicing an opinion when I feel it necessary. You have wonderful insight and I am beginning to enjoy conversing with you very much. Those that don't like your views well, they can..... You get the picture :))
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
20 Jun 07
Hello, Angelwhispers! Good afternoon!
It's refreshing to see you here:-)
LOL! yes, I am turning, but actually I was inducted very early in real mylot class:) In fact it happened to me in the very second week, when I jumped into a discussion, that too just to calm people down and to say them to respect each other and do not name call other responders. People became angry on me just for this reason. The very next day my rating fell from 90 to 78:-).
This time it's a little different. I was actually anticipating it and I am not worried for my rating. I just want people to face me. I have pretty much good idea who they are but I want them to admit, nothing else.
It's nice that you got over it very early. see wise people learn faster:-). I like people who are not moved by these petty things as star rating. I am much like the same.
I am really honored by your kind words, Angelwhispers, they really mean to me something. I too have enjoyed conversations with you. It's always refreshing to talk to real people, who have insight and wisdom and who are above an average level.
Thanks so much for responding:-)
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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
21 Jun 07
You are very welcome, now I can add another description to your resume :)))) You are Quite the charmer also :))
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@kkittu (426)
• India
21 Jun 07
it feels bad to know that some body has rated - , any way i never ratred - to any one, i always rated + or not rated any thing but not r5ated-.
my two friends accounts was deleated because some one rated abuse they are near to get paid one is at 9$ 450 pointrs and another one is9.65$ 740 points........
any way try to rate + or dnt rate,juyst leave it without rating,but dont rate- or abuse!.........
GOODLUCK
Kkittu:)
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@gscs1838 (1536)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 07
that mean everytime if rating come down that mean is someone rate you negatively.? is that real/? i feel that everybody have the right to agree and disagree of someone or something. so , of course have the negative and the positive .
for me, i just speak out whatever from my stomach. straight away.
sorry of if you don't know what i am annoying...
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
20 Jun 07
If rating comes down, it definitely means that someone has rated you negatively, gscs1838! especially when I was expecting, it makes it more sure.
Yes every body has the right to agree and disagree, but one should be mindful while rating someone. I have never abused any body, neither did I ever name called or had been rude to any one. Then again, I am not complaining that why it happened, I am just asking the people to step forward who did it, nothing else:-)
It's nice to know that you speak your mind. You are not annoying to me, if that's what you mean, gscs1838!:-)
Thanks for responding:-)
@paradise12 (938)
• India
21 Jun 07
Its sad that here people do such things which is really irritating....I didn't knew that somebody can decrease our rating...
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
21 Jun 07
Some body can decrease the star rating by hitting the '-' sign. But some people do it in an organized way. I am not worried and angry over loss of my start rating. I just want people to cme forward and accept and win my respect.
Thanks for responding paradise12:-)
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