How will you know that it's LoVe after all?(",)
By lani0529
@lani0529 (1722)
Philippines
June 20, 2007 7:00am CST
I often hear alot of definitions about love. What I like is the bible's definition of it.(",) To you, how will you define it? How will you recognize that it's love and not just infatuation or admiration? How did you meet your special someone and recognize that he/she is the one for you?
Hope you'll be able to drop by and share! Thanks.(",)
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7 responses
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
20 Jun 07
I don't know! I will tell you when I am in love haha!
I think you will just know.. somehow. If you can't be sure that it is love, it probably isn't. :P
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
Hello lani. It all depends on how well you define the meaning of love. Nobody can really give you a precise and accurate answer about the real feelings of love.
Literally speaking and in plain simple context, it just happened. You will never know when it will hit you. It can happened with anyone of your friend, in school, the church or social gathering.
Love only happened if both party have the same feelings toward each other. There is the underlying connection, the chemistry, camaraderie and compatibility.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
For me, I don't really know what LOVE is. I also don't know if there is still a love like what God used to give to us. God's love is infinite, VERY understanding and forgiving.
I guess love is natural to all of us, aside from the love that we had from our family, relatives and friends.
I have no perfect definition on the love we seek from our better-halves, because love should come from both parties and not from just one person only. It's a two-way street, and both should work in perpetuity.
As you already know, I got burned from it just recently. I guess it's a one-sided relationship, that I know now is not built with love as it's foundation.
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
Hi raijin!(",)
You should not doubt God's love for you because it doesn't change and He loves you unconditionally. They say that a one-sided love can make a person tired and burnt out and will just die in the end because you are only the one giving and no one is filling in for you. How sad but that's what love as they say,"a sacrifice."
Thanks for sharing! I do hope you are feeling better now!(",)
@AmbiePam (92359)
• United States
20 Jun 07
I really don't worry about who I will end up loving forever. I think the Lord will place it upon my heart that this is the one He wants me with. But to me, you need to be friends with that person. If you can just hang out with that person and not even say much, but STILL enjoy being together, you know it's a good start. : )
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@joey_matthews (8354)
•
20 Jun 07
Love can be seen very easily.
Although "I" feel you need to at least know what love is before or have felt it. I don't believe in first girl friend, oh that's true love and I think that comes only with someone special.
When that happens you'll know, anyone would too.
~Joey
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
21 Jun 07
This is a tough one to actually put into words. I guess it's just a 'gut feeling' something inside says 'this is love' or 'I love this person' - afraid I've had my heart broken numerous time though as I do love easily.
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
Hello faith!
I do hope my heart will tell me whom to love who will not break my heart. What is important is that you've learn something from your experiences in life. I do hope that you became stronger and wiser from your experiences.
Thank you so much for sharing!(",)
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@poobear12993 (167)
• United States
20 Jun 07
I think you know when you are in love because that is all that you can think about. When you see the person you will get butterflys in your stomach. I believe that many people will come in and out of our lives and maybe at the moment it will feel right but your gut is the one that will tell you if it is actually true.
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