Which one is better... Being in love or being loved?

@dheaja (171)
Indonesia
June 20, 2007 8:14am CST
Do you prefer being with someone whom you love the most but he/she doesn't loves you or being with someone who loves you so much but you don't love that person?
6 responses
Jessem
@Jessem (372)
• Mauritius
20 Jun 07
Of course one would like to be loved rather being in the place of the other who person. I find this hard to believe that can anyone love a person even though he knows that the latter does not care about his feelings. Its even better if you love a person and this love is reciprocal..
dheaja
@dheaja (171)
• Indonesia
26 Jun 07
I think it's not easy to just forget someone you really love. I believe you'll always love someone though that person do not even care.
shen23
@shen23 (126)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
this is a sort of hard question.. thank God i'm not on that situation. anyway, i prefer be with a man who loves the woman so much, even though the woman don't love the man, as i believed, time came that the woman will fall in love for him one day.
dheaja
@dheaja (171)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 07
Yeah.. I think woman easier to love than a man..
poobear12993
@poobear12993 (167)
• United States
20 Jun 07
I think to be really in love you both should love each other the same. It is great to have someone love you so much but you not love them as much but in the end I don't think the relationship would last.
dheaja
@dheaja (171)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 07
That's right.. But it's gonna be hard to love someone if you already have a person you love. thanx for your response..
nageswari75
@nageswari75 (675)
•
26 Jun 07
I love being in love and I love being loved.But yes,I do like to be with someone I love because I am never the one for an unrequited love.In any relationship,I like to get close only if the other person accepts and loves me.
loopylou2406
@loopylou2406 (382)
•
20 Jun 07
the saying "its better to have loved and lost than not to love at all" springs to mind!!
fugsateyista
@fugsateyista (212)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
I can't imagine myself being in both situation. I mean, I don't think I would last in a one-sided relationship. But I would prefer to be with someone I love even though she doesn't appreciate it cause I think whatever situation it is, love will make you understand.