virginity versus compatiblity

I think that honesty and communication are the key things in a relationship. Love is the most important but those 2 are key to having a successful relationship. Everyone is different but I think that most people can agree on those 3 things. Having someone that you have things in common with is important too. What are you going to have to talk about if you don't have anything in common? Security is important too. I think if you feel secure with the person you are with, there will be no need for jealousy (which can sometimes kill a relationship). I don't believe that virginity has a key role in who you choose. A lot of people do think that though. That's something that each person has to figure out for themselves. I just don't think I would want to throw away a great relationship just because the other person wasn't a virgin. You could be losing your one true love just for that one thing.