Is he cheating? or does he just need space??
By carlissa32
@carlissa32 (64)
United States
June 21, 2007 4:40pm CST
My friend and her boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and he has been acting suspicious lately. I told her to go and talk it out with him but when she confronted him about it she asked if he had someone else on his mind he told her yes but would not give her any details or any further information and from what she tells me he got pretty angry because she brought it up. Did I give her wrong advice any males that can give me perspective on this?
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@ChupoLibro (54)
• United States
18 Jul 07
She needs to go to him with the "I want you to be happy" line. Or even the "Let's be fair" line. Basically, she doesn't deserve to be caught in a relationship with a man who would rather be with someone else, and he doesn't deserve to feel trapped in one he no longer wants to be in. If she presents the situation in a way that is non-combative, she'll probably get the information she's looking for. There just needs to be total honesty - and if he can't give her that, perhaps she needs to call it quits anyway.
