Pregnant 1 of 5 guys babies what should i do???

Sorry to hear about your situation. I'm not sure what to tell you to do. If you want to keep the baby, I think the only thing you can do is wait to have it to have a DNA test done to figure out which guy is the dad. I'm not sure they can do anything prior to birth. As for your living situation, I'm not sure you should keep the secret from your friend. Do you have any other relatives that you could stay with? I'm not sure where you are located, but you might also be able to find an agency to help you. I'm glad you want to finish school, that is important.

I really don't know what to tell you. You may be able to get welfare or social assistance of some kind so you can get an apartment and you could try to get your GED online. The only way you are gonna find out who the father is is to have a paternity test done after the child is born and to do that you are gonna have to go to all the guys and ask for DNA samples. You've really got yourself into a situation. There are some church groups and planned parenthood clinics that might offer you assistance if you go ask. Try searching online for help and advice for teen mothers, you might find something useful. You will have to tell your friend what you did at some point because she will be even more mad if she has to hear it from someone else.

From your other posts , I can see that you have self esteem issues... You are old enough to keep the child, but you will need help. Talk to your parents or relatives, tell them you can't do this alone, and have learnt from your mistakes. Call your local center at Illinois Pregnancy Center 1707 E Main, Suite 7 Only, IL 62450 618-395-1611 www.birthright.org Crisis Pregnancy Center of E. Illinois 260 W. Locus Ave. www.bethany.org/A55798/bethany Write these down.... GOD BLESS...

What a horrible situation to be in. But you do need to tell someone. You need help with the baby and you need a place to stay. If you cannot tell your friend then she is not a true friend, is there a councellor or someone to speak to and maybe arrange for temporary accomodation. If you want to finish school you need to be strong for yourself and this innocent baby. I know if it was me in that situation, I would not leave school because of childish name calling, I would hold my head up high and try and get the best grades that I could. Be strong I hope it all works out for you.

Are you serious?? What a terrible situation to be in!! I would keep my mouth shut, don't tell your friend about her brother or boyfriend, it probably is wrong but you can't be out on the streets while you are pregnant. Tell her you are not sure who the father is and try to get back into school. Is there a program for teen mothers in your town? I have heard about them but don't know exactly what they are. I would try to get on food stamps and any other type of government assistance that you can, just so you can survive. Don't let other people talking bad get you down! You have to stay strong for yourself and your baby!! Don't worry about who the father is until the baby is born, then you can do tests to find out who's baby it is. Goodl uck, I can't imagine being in your situation! Stay strong and pray!!

you probably won't get any real info from anybody here on this site, try going to a family planing place and talk to a professional, also see if their are any other options then abortions, also try to finish school have a ged would help you in your situation

Babies are a huge responsibility. You will have no life except with your child. See if there is a place like "birthright " in your city. Or a place for unwed mothers. They can help you out a lot. Good luck to you. I hope it all works out. Please don not raise a child if you cannot do it effectively. Babies need lots of love and they cost lots of money. There are tests that can be done to find out who fathered the child.

Dear, you need to take a deep breath and step back a minute. I know it seems like the end of the world. It really isn't. First, stop talking about this here. Call the teen hotline. It should be open 24 hours a day and a toll-free number. They will be able to give you the options in your area. Why did your parents kick you out? Was it because of this? If not, you might be able to work things out with them. If you have to drop out and get a GED, it is still ok. My sons did this and are doing fine.

Okay you live in the states right? Then if you are 16 your parents can't kick you. You can possibl leave on our own accord... but they can not kick you out. You need to go to your school counselor. You are carrying a baby. A baby ou want to evidently keep. So guess what sweetie time to grow up. That child is more important now. And if you can't mature enough then I say you should consider abortion or adoption. Babies raising babies doesn't cut it. Screw your head on straight and grow up a bit. Get yourself to a doctor and verify you are pregnant and get on vitamins. Go to your local health department. Apply for medicaid to help wih the doctor bills. And wic and food stamps to make sure ou are able to eat right. AND FOR GODS SAKE take you rear home to your momma and daddy. I'm sure they aren't happy with ou right now but they probably love you enough to get over it. They may yell and scream for a bit. They may be disappointed and not trust you for a while. DEAL WITH IT!! That is what happens.

what did i say? i knew this was completely lies "againdrama" or jen thanks for revealing the truth to us(although some of us already knew :P)

thanks for agreeing with me elp what a place to go, to tell people about this and to see "if they have a heart or not", right? a site that pays to post? come on this is the biggest bullshit ive ever heard and let me ask you something, where do you get computer access? your friend just lets you go on her computer all the time to talk about something she "doesnt know of"?

you need to talk with a counselor. to get some help it's not normal for any woman no matter how old the are to be sleeping with so many men and not using protection you could have gotten more then a baby you could get aids!! it's a real std it can kill you!! what happen to you for you to be this way? your parents are wrong for putting you out when you need them the most. you have to find something in yourself to start loving so you can start getting the love that you are searching for. i can tell you that you not going to find it in no man no matter how many you sleep with,you want find true love until you have true love and respect for yourself. don't let it be to late!!! i will keep you in my prayers

Oh my God! But you're only 16! How could you done something like that? Well anyways, i dont have the right to judge you. It must be your broken family that makes you come up with that situation. Maybe they cannot give you the attnetions you're needed because they have a problem with their relationship. About your baby, when is your due? I' m also pregnant right now. ;) Well, my advice to you is that, for now, don't think yet of who's the father of your baby because it can affect your pregnancy. You have to relax yourself first until you deliver your child. About your friend, if she's really a friend, she's gonna understand I think.. but don't tell it yet to her especially in your situation..

Get some advice from someone you can trust not off the internet. Good luck

SKSOUTH, riptide, sndcain, & wachit14 have the most sound advice given in their responses. They are parents as well, & they know what the possibilities people your age can get into. Personally, I would have nominated SHSOUTH. Anyway, I'll add that if your parents kicked you out because of this, they are not worthy parents. They should have been more supportive, & at least tried to help in any way possible.

You want to graduate then you need to stay in school.You are a minor and you need to get back on good terms with your parents.Do they know you are pregnant?Tell them then.You are still a minor and dont need to be on the street.Look up local shelters or go to your social services and they might place you in a home.

Im not sure if this is the right place to talk about this. Like another post said, call the teen hotline. They should have it at your school or on the internet. Best of Luck!

If you are on the level, then you really need to get yourself to a doctor first and foremost. I think you also need to get some counseling too. Go home to your parents, ask for their forgiveness and tell them everything. You can get your GED and make a plan for yourself, if you really are pregnant. I apologize for sounding a little harsh, but I have a daughter your age and I would want her to come home and be honest with yourself and with me. Good luck!

You will be okay! And you are most definatly not the S word! Dont let anyone get you down! Your doing fine. Take good care of yourself while pregnant though. Try not to let anyone stress you out, easier said than done I know. Just because you slept with 4 or 5 guys doesn't mean anything. Dont let anyone label you like that. If the friend finds out, is she going to kick you out for sure? How are you going to find out who the father is? Good luck with everything, here's a ((hug)) for you!

youre really in quite a predicament .. i will not say any thing agianst it, i do sympathize how you fill like hoe screwd up you can be. youre too young, but dont get abortion.