Women face more hardships than men?

Hi Deepak, A very good morning to you...Well i absolutely agree to you very well said...Well i see that how my mom takes care of home and inspite of so much work at home she does with utmost patience and also with great ease thats the best part which i like it in her...in future i will follow in her footsteps...woh thoo pakka hai...She is always busy in her work all the time and even though she doesnt take that much rest but she manages home very well well i should say she is a perfect woman. As you said compared to when man Women face more hardships than men. I love my mama a lottttttttttttttttt......Thank you so much for posting such a lovely and sweet discussion. Bye and have a nice day ahead and take care.... Happy posting.... Vani.

I first wish to say, you are right about a lot of what you have said. I have seen many children raised, both with a father and without. I believe that haveing a father for the child is very important, just as important as the mother. Some mothers can, on their own, raise a good child, but a lot of the time a child raised without their fathers, grow up to be very confused about things a father would teach them. For instance, How to be a good Man, How important it is to earn a living, How to fix a bike, or even How not to hit a woman, How to be responsible for the children they conseive....ect. For a girl, a Father teaches, what to expect from a man that wants to be with her, how important it is to save herfelf, (mostly not to give her father a heart attack), how to know the difference between a boy who wants to love her and a boy who just wants to get into her pants, that a man can be capable of love and tenderness and that if a man was ever to lay hands on her, it would not be just because he had a bad day! Since a good father, would raise her showing her that he never raised a hand to her mother!In a sence, I think woman have it hard, but I believe that men who own up to their responsabilities, have a pretty hard time themselves. They have to not have relations with them for approximetly 7 days out of every month and six weeks after child birth,(which is deffinatley harder for the woman because she bleeds)we all know how important relations are to a man! lol They have to wake up in the middle of the night and go to some strange store of our choice to give us that special food we crave when we are pregnant, they have to watch us give birth and still believe that it is possible for "it" to fit in there after that. lol When a man is in the home, he is usually the one who dissaplines the child, since they no longer listen to the mother. When the mother needs a day off, the father takes care of the kids, while haveing no clue what to do with them and the mother has caught on to how to take care of more than one child. So if you ask me both men and woman have it pretty equal.:D

First of all thanks for realising the hardships faced by women.Its quite happy to note that todays men recognise this and help their mother and wife at home.My dad helps my mom even in her kitchen work if iam busy. you have stressed a very valuable point in considering the work load of women at both home and office.They face additional responsibility and keep the family go happily.You can written a wonderful topic for discussion.Thanks a lot.

Hi Deepak! I agree with you on the point that woman face more hardships than men. They are also considered like a weaker gender and endup suffering abuses as well. A modern woman is in noway lesser than a man and possess better manegerial skills. What would be life without a woman? So value us and treat us as an equal.

i think women face more hard ships as after marriage she hav to handle all da family of her husband and do hav to adjust in new surroundings and dats really difficult..........and end less hard ships dat can not be explained as i hav some livig examples

I think it is society that has made women to really face extra hardships. I think many societies don't actually respect the woman and I am talking about even here in the west. Women are the ones that get pregnant and carry the children in their womb and give birth to them and the natural choice to care and nurture them after they are born. Also, naturally, they are the ones to instill discipline, morals and knowledge at the early stages. But, with all that, i think they don't get enough support to help especially in this course.

Deepak, you are going to have all female friends from now on....because woman wants to be recognized in her life... We work hard and harder than man, but we are not lazy...I have to say it...as man is...hmm...most of them...are... Hugs!

after i readied your post I thought...I can't say it better.You have a good point here and you are absolutely right.I can't add anything more. The only thing I can say is I fell happy seeing a post like these started from a man and not woman.these make the topic even more important. Thanks Deepak but thinking us (women).

I can't fully agree with your assessment. I think it depends on the individual involved. Both women and men can go through periods of suffering. Some of what you say is true, but to say that women always suffer more than men is not always true. I don't think so at least. Not all women are mothers and some women do quite well for themselves or are married and are supported very well. Not all men have things so easy. There are men who look after their parent(s), raise their kids and have the burden of suppling the support to the family. T Some men and women make it harder on themselves as a result of their actions and choices in life.

You have stated everything so well that I honestly don't think I could add a thing to what you've said. Motherhood is definitely a full time job in itself, and women do it very efficiently and lovingly. If anyone deserves to be on the highest pay scale, it is definitely the moms of this world.

Hi there, Yes so it seems, weighing up the duties of woman and the duties of men, they just dont seem to compare. Woman bear the pain of giving birth to the baby, not too mention the pregnancy term, house work, job and family obligations, as well as mentral pains and periods, theres just so many things a woman bears and grins... Was all this due to "Eve" eating that apple or wat?...

Hi, deepak. Good point! I absolutely agree with you. Like most other myLotters said, it's a fact that women face or suffer more than men. Especially nowadays, most of women have their own jobs. They not only bear the pressure from job but also take care of the whole family after work. It's uneasy for mother to raise her children. As a daughter, I've been grown up now and try my best to help her with the housework. Hope others no matter you're daughter or son, reduce the pressure of our mother as possible as we can. What's more, it's time for us to express our love to our great mother. Wish all the mother around the world good health and a long life! Have a nice day! :) Yuan

Hi, deepak. Good point! I absolutely agree with you. Like most other myLotters said, it's a fact that women face or suffer more than men. Especially nowadays, most of women have their own jobs. They not only bear the pressure from job but also take care of the whole family after work. It's uneasy for mother to raise her children. As a daughter, I've been grown up now and try my best to help her with the housework. Hope others no matter you're daughter or son, reduce the pressure of our mother as possible as we can. What's more, it's time for us to express our love to our great mother. Wish all the mother around the world good health and a long life! Have a nice day! :) Yuan

I also agree to your views. Being a woman is more difficult than being a man.. And now a days with woman going for working and having career just like men, they are juggling between different lives. It is even more harder. But the inbuilf smartness in them makes them able to handle all these things.. It will be good if men can apreciate this.

HI,deepak.how are you?how's the life going? really a good discussion.but i don't find giving a bit extra for one's own family is anything like hardship:of course it is a bit tiring but after looking at those smiling faces of ones whom you love,i feel one forgets all exhaustion.actually my hubby is quite helpful in household chores as well as he never forgets to shower me with praises for my efforts.so i don't mind giving in extra for my family.i think that's the way women feel and think that's why they are able to carry all their responsibilities so efficiently.

yes i think woman are multitasker than man, because of the idea that they are more patient than man. Some woman, wants to prove something for themselves like they some of my friends, they have child but no daddy, they want to prove to the people around that even she is alone she can still provide for her baby. And that's why they are very strong to accomplished something good.

Yes, I agree, the modern women have dual responsibilities - as a home maker and bread earner. But they have great resilience and most manage both the roles very well.

Having a child alone is more hardship than a man will ever know or ever experience. Any guy that thinks they men have it harder than woman need a reality check. Woman, these days, do everything a man does and more!