Do you always approve new friends in mylot?

i rarely approve new friends, the reason being that i dont want inactive friends. I use a set criteria, i have to have answered one of the persons postings, or they have to have answered at least one of mine. Also, if his profile says he is 18 m India he stands little chance simply because i have nothing in common. I also always check profile, I want to see some interests in common. I also feel that unless someone has made over 100 responses they have yet to prove themselves committed to the site. I dont want my friends list to be full of inactive individuals so im afraid i turn down many more than i accept blessed be

No, I don' approve all friend requests. I used to, but I have stopped. Many of the requests that I am getting are from folks who have not answered any of my discussions nor have I answered any of theirs. I always check their profile too. If I see that every discussion they start is about some money making program or starts with "how can I make more money..." then I don't approve them as my friend. I check their discussions and replies to discussions to see if they follow the myLot guidelines. If they don't, they I don't approve them. Too many risks!

I have denied alot of spammers and a few that i know have no interest in my discussions.I mean i see the request and then i see they dont respond to my discussions.I have accept over 200 friend request i have denied less than 50 i dont know the exact numbers.

Including you I have 379 friends as of now. No I dont deny anybodys request and not denied even one, I not even deleted my added friends who does not respond to my discussions. Once a friend is always a friend.

I hate to deny anyone but I have done it quite a few times. I always check out the person first, and answer some of there discussions if they have some good ones. I have approved a lot of friends but I have also gone back and deleted some of them. I have no idea what the count might be.

I always approve new friends. I don't know how many I have already but I'm sure I have a lot already. I only denied one person because I knew he/she was a spammer. The first time I approved them and then they started sending me their referral links. I deleted them and then they came with another new name, but I knew it was the same person because of the avatar and the name was the same except they added a number to it. So I denied the request. Some people don't accept new friends unless they answer their discussions. I don't have that problem because I found a way how to do things. When someone answers my discussion, whether they are friends or not, I make it a point to answer theirs, that's my way to thank them, better than just commenting their answer. And usually by doing that, I don't have the problem of browsing discussions and trying to find the ones I can answer. You see I am here b_gryl because you answered one of my discussions. And you are not on my friends list. But you come first to me when it comes to answering discussions. I would rather answer someone who answered mine than answering a friend who never answers mine... Thanks and have a great day!

only after I saw their profile and see their topics being started coz from there I can see what interest them but almost 95% I do approve.. have a great day

last time i did,but now on i'll choose member for friendlist.i think i should get friends in same interest,who like and respect to each other,quality of friend is more important than quantity of friend.

Well, I just approve any friend request that I get here in myLot. It doesn't really matter to me if I don't know that at all. I'd get to know them, well a part of them anyway, through our exchanges in the discussions that we would both participate in. I'd get to read their views and opinions and that would somehow establish that kind of personality that I can perceive from them. And that would also be the same case for them as well when they get to read my posts. I don't see it really as a necessity to send PMs in this site but, I do reply if they do send some and I also send them messages in case its not really a discussion but, more of an inquiry. I often approve most friend requests that I get and, I have not denied or even deleted friends here in myLot, even though most of them are not that active anymore (^_^")

Yes I do. I am a friendly person and I don't mind if another person wants to be my friend.