My hubby ex-girl friend keep disturbing my family.
By kelly_ngcl
@kelly_ngcl (6)
Singapore
June 22, 2007 9:26am CST
My hubby ex-girl friend never stop disturbing my family since we married 2 years ago. I really don't know what to do. She can keep calling here and there to get my family info. Beside this, everyday after work or when she is off. She will go my hubby working place look for him. If she never saw my hubby in the shop, she will keep asking my hubby's staffs where is my hubby. Me as a wife never ever go to my hubby's work place look for him. Unless, my hubby wanna meet me for dinner. Me really headache... can anyone tell me how to stop her go my hubby work place, sto[ calling and msg my hubby (my hubby never respond to her call n msg) HELP ME!!!
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5 responses
@aleeming1 (163)
• Canada
22 Jun 07
Tell her to her face to get lost and leave your family alone. Ask her what she wants. Or just get a restraining order.
@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
Whoaa~! Looks like we've got a real psycho here!! Just be careful not to do anything rash kelly. If she's clever, she can use that against you, and you'll be the one getting in trouble.. And we wouldn't want that, would we?
@kelly_ngcl (6)
• Singapore
22 Jun 07
Scold I also scold already.. Face to face sound her, slap her I also did already. Yet she still keep calling, keep msging. Feel like wanna kill her!
@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
22 Jun 07
Hey Kelly~!
Well, do you know why she keeps on looking for your hubby? Is there anything specific that she needs? I suggest to try asking her the next time she calls. Also, I think the best thing to do would be to talk to your husband about this and tell him how uncomfortable about his ex calling and looking for him all the time. Maybe he should be the one to tell her not to disturb your family anymore. It will be more convincing if he tells her to stop, rather than you doing it. I hope I can be more of help. Maybe some friends here at mylot have a better solution for you.. Hang in there~! :)
@kelly_ngcl (6)
• Singapore
22 Jun 07
The problem is my husband already told her stop disturbing us. We try to change our house phone no, mobile no and also our email address. She still can get it cos she is working in 1 of the telco company and she also have friends work in other telco company. She can simply get out contact no thru her company system. Another thing is she still keep in touch with my mother in-law. And my mother in-law like her more than me. What can I do??? Me ready get fed up with her...and my mother in-law too. I already sound my mother in-law so many time. The answer that my mother in-law give me is - I prety her cos she dun have family. I got nothing to say. She win already lor!!!
@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
You know what kelly, just call the police! You and your husband should just lodge a report for harassment! If you've already changed your number numerous times, slapped her, shouted at her, and she still doesn't get the hint, then I say she's a psycho that needs to be stopped! It's not about mere jealousy anymore. It's also about the safety of your family. Lodge a report kelly~!!
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
22 Jun 07
Your husband needs to take care of this. It is his responsibility. You should have him (if there is something like this in your country) file a report with the police for harassment and place a restrianment order against her so that she cannot call, come by his place of work, or come within a certain distance of him without being thrown in jail.
As for you MIL, there is nothing you can do to change that. Just be nice to the woman. I am sure she has a hand in this. Maybe your husband could talk to her.
@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
Yup~! I agree.. Get a restraining order against her and have her keep her distance! She could be dangerous..
@sreevasu (2717)
• India
22 Jun 07
You could talk the issue with your husband and make a suitable decision and prevent her in a fair way. There is no meaning in taking is as your headache. After all it is his ex, not yours. So better to talk to him and deal it in the proper way. Thank you for asking.
@Mshell (62)
• United States
22 Jun 07
I think this should be your husband's responsibilty. I think he should tell her that her constantly coming around is not acceptable and she shouldn't do it anymore. I think he should let her know that they can still be friends but only under the circumstance that you feel comfortable with it.
