My boyfriend and his ex

@eva_diva (287)
Philippines
June 22, 2007 9:40am CST
Should it concern me if my boyfriend is on speaking terms again with his ex and that they are exchanging some text mesaages? Im not the insecure type.. but how would you know if the relationship is still secure?
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4 responses
• Philippines
22 Jun 07
You should trust you partner.. Maybe he just wants to be friend with his ex and nothing more.. But if you really want to secure your relationship you should give your 101% of pure love to your partner so he will be satisfied on you.. ^_^
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@eva_diva (287)
• Philippines
22 Jun 07
I have given him more that 101% and our relationship is going great and i trust him, i really do, its the girl i dont trust..eheheh..
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
Ohh.. if thats the case well you should be ready to anything.. But just try to trust her ex and pray.. ^_^
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
22 Jun 07
I keep in contact with an ex of mine. He is a great guy and loads of to hang with. My husband and I have a very loving relationship and he trusts me. If my friend and I go out it is always with a group so that my husband knows that nothing is going on. Honestly if you 2 have been together for 2yrs and he has been broken up with this girl for 3yrs then you shouldent be worried at all. You have his heart right now and he comes home to you not to her so dont worry about it.
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@eva_diva (287)
• Philippines
22 Jun 07
Thank you, magikrose.. :) That makes me feel a lot better.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
22 Jun 07
how long have the two of you been together, how long ago did they split up, do they have kids, how is your relationship goin with him? The answer to all of those questions will give you the answer to your question.... I've ALWAYS been one to stay in touch with most of my ex's and in fact remain very good friends with them...I have never seen any reason NOT to be friends ya know....but I can see how the new gf may feel i am a threat since most ppl go their seperate ways and thats that ya know... I think if you are doin well in your relationshp and you've been together for some time etc I wouldnt worry about it BUT I would definately tell your man your concerns just so he is aware ya know....
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@eva_diva (287)
• Philippines
22 Jun 07
We have been together for 2 years, they split up 3 years ago, nope they dont have kids..and we are having the best time..at first i wasnt really concerned but the girl has started calling his cell phone and they have planned group dates that im not even aware of..it just sounds too weird..i dont know, call it female instinct.. :(
• India
22 Jun 07
Most probably it's just keeping in contact, at wth worst case scenario ur bf's ex wants him back again, but that doesn't mean he'll be going back jus' like that is it, he loves you and that should be more than enough reason for him to keep things as they are.
@eva_diva (287)
• Philippines
22 Jun 07
Thank you for that vote of confidence. I also trust my bbf so much and the feeling is mutual. But I have had previous experiences with this girl before and she can be ruthless if she wanted to. After reading your post, i feel a little better, it sounds logical.