What's your flirting style?
By mean_queen
@mean_queen (1713)
Malaysia
June 22, 2007 11:16am CST
What do you do when you flirt?? I'm sure we've all been there before. We see a hot guy/girl and the game is on~! The difference is, we all have our different flirting styles. Maybe some of you girls twist your finger around your hair. Some may just sit there and wait for eye contact. Others may give out that cute giggle while flipping their hair. Guys would maybe come up with a pick up line they got from a friend.
If you're like me, then you'd start stuttering and make a fool out of yourself~! I'm not smooth at all. I can't even drink out of a straw without having it drip on me. LOL..
So share with us your flirting stories and anecdotes. I'd really like to know your flirting style.. Thanks a bunch guys~! ;D
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4 responses
@Darkhorse1311 (418)
• India
22 Jun 07
Vow ur cute!! Well I dont use pick-up lines..they are cheesy.I think girls like honesty and if I like a girl,I walkupto her and tell her I like her and compliment her for what I like about her.Then I ask her whether she wants to go for a drive or maybe to the dance-floor or more importantly,I'll let her decide what has to be done.
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@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
Aww.. *blush* Wow, you're a really confident guy. Yeah, I guess most girls would appreciate honesty rather than cheesy pink-up lines. I've kinda forgotten. I haven't been hit on for ages! lol... Maybe the girls here at mylot could determine that.. Thanks for your response anyway~! ;D
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@wolves69 (755)
• United States
22 Jun 07
Very interesting question for me. I really don't have any flirting style. I don't think I've ever made the first advance or asked for a date. Shy? Not really, but it never seemed right.
I've always been the type to fumble with the words, and generally not make any sense. Eye contact, well, the more I'm attracted to the person, the less eye contact I make. LOL. I've never really bumbled around, but I've been known to talk in utter non-sense.
Unconsciously, I avoid those situations but if the "talk" is right and I feel comfortable, I'll get closer to someone. If I can't carry on a conversation thats interesting, I generally don't want anything to do with the lady.
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@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
22 Jun 07
Haha.. It's hard for me to make eye contact when I'm interesting in someone. I'd be so shy~! But I agree with you about having a comfortable conversation, would that would really get me going without having to stutter all the time. That would really do the trick for me~! :P Thanks for sharing wolves69~!!
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@xXxPRINCExXx (58)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
My style is simply just to give that certain person a 'wink' :-)
@shemah (840)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
i don't flirt. my SISTER says i'm a flirt. I'm not. Or maybe i do it UNCONSCIOUSLY. hahahaha.. but I think when you can exude some confidence, maintain eye contact during a conversation, listen and smile, people might mistake that for flirting.
I think with flirting, it's about the body language and eye contact. Scoot a little closer but not too close. Put a hand on his forearm when you're talking, touching lightly not gripping. So it's not that intimate like holding his hand or arm. Your body facing his, because if your body is facing away from him, then it might seem like you're pushing him away. Tilt your head when you're listening. And when you laugh at his jokes, don't giggle. Laugh naturally.. it won't be that hard if you really find him funny.
OH MY GOD! I AM A FLIRT!! hahahahaha.. but that was during my single days. During my mother of two days, probably i flirt a little with the fruit vendor to get some discounts. lol!
@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
LOL~! I just had to give you the best response for that one! You flirted me into it~! Hahaha.. Nah, it's because you got a whole breakdown of your flirting style and it's perfect~! My sister, the flirt in denial~!
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@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 07
I think you mean a MAJOR FLIRT got the best response! :P And yeah, it does help even if I might not use it anytime soon. hehe..
@shemah (840)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
Hey!!
Thanks for the best response! It's amazing huh, that a non-flirt can get the best response on this matter! hahaha.. Well, i hope these tried and tested methods really help those people in need.. :) hahaha.. especially one who dribbles a little from the straw!