Best friend!
By smileonstar
@smileonstar (4007)
United States
June 22, 2007 2:27pm CST
I know everyone will have their own best friend, boy or girl. well, it is depend on how you want them to be. My question is, what do you mean by best friend? How are they going to involve with you? What do you call the name of best friend? Does he/she has to be the same age like you? Explain please
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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26 Jun 07
You make a good point, a best friend develops over time not just something that can be manufactured
blessed be
@junksta14 (207)
• United States
26 Jun 07
i dont have a best friend ...i have a bunch of friends but i dont have someone that is my wingman ..i use to but we got into this stupid fight and neither of us had the courage to make up with eachother o well
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
26 Jun 07
well,having a best friend is not a bad idea. many friends could be your best friends too right? My best friend is someone that know who I am and how I am, My only best friend is always care for me and I care for her, even we live in different state. We are friends since we were a kid, almost 20 years now. You will know when you have your own best friend... but if you are a guy then it doesnt matter for you cuz you can hang out with other friends, but girls are different.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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26 Jun 07
to me my best friend is my husband. We have been through so much together and not only are we still lovers after 17 years of marriage, we actually still like one another lol. He truely is my soul mate. This, I believe is the essence of being best friends, common experience brings people together in an unbreakable bond that only gets stronger as a relationship matures
blessed be
@mestr12 (226)
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
A best friend for me is someone whom you can count on.
I tell my best friend my deepest secrets and I know that she won't tell a soul. We trust and love each other. We have been best friends since elementary. She is only 7 months older than me. Even if we didn't go to the same college, our friendship remained the same. If we don't see or talk to each other for weeks, once we meet it is as if nothing has changed. The bonds of our friendship remains very strong up to the present. :)
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
23 Jun 07
that's what I call a bestfriend too. However my old bestfirend never think like that. If you were me, you will know how she acts to you. I am not a type of person talking about other people, or say this or say that to make them feel bad or sth... Never. but the last think that I remember was I didn't let her mom borrow my money. And I think her mom told her not to hang out with me any more. I didn't mean not to let her loan some money, but I didn't have any money at that time. and I was a college student. you know how college student is right? work for enough for your spending only. But she never understand... Now, I also have another best friend... she lives in diffferent state but we are still best friend. that's all i need
@nihonslang (7)
• United States
22 Jun 07
I think your best friend is someone who you can always trust, someone who shares your enthusiasm for the things you like, someone who is honest and will tell you the truth even if it hurts a little. Your best friend is someone you always look forward to seeing or hanging out with. The age and gender don't really matter too much, but most of the time, girls have girls for best friends and guys have guys. Most of the time the ages are similar too.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
22 Jun 07
I know!!! I used to have a best friend but she just gone with no explaination. I called but she never return my phone call. I went to her house, she didn't want to see me. I just dont know what does it mean?we used to hanged out for 3 years and then she just like that. I didn't even know what have I done to her. but it has been for 4 years now, so I kind of forget about it but I just wondering.
@milott (2646)
• India
23 Jun 07
The friend is the one who walks in when all others walk out.
To maintain a friendship one should focus on what you can give to a friend, not what you can get from it. You should always encourage your friend. If found a mistake tactfully point it out rather than pointing it out directly. You should be willing to forgive. Don't ever try to control your friends, this is the major reason for most of the friendship that breaks. You should be with the friends not only on good times but also in bad times. Don't be a blabber mouth. You should be reliable to your friend.
