I love my boyfriend but I think it's time for me to end it for good

United States
June 22, 2007 2:46pm CST
I have been with my boyfriend for more than two years now and we have certainly been through alot. He was my first boyfriend so before him I can say that I was not very experienced in the relationship field, this is why I allow him to put me through so much. I have been the best girlfriend I can possibly be, I havd\e helped him pay his phone bill, I gave him money to pay his rent, I loved him when despite everything he done to me. He has neglected me countless amount of times, he never stood up to any promises, he hardly calls me, and I have suspicions of him seeing someone else. He can go 4 months at a time without calling me and I am always the one to take him back. Whenever a female confronts me about him and I approaches him, he mostly get mad at me for listening to them and makes me feel like the guilty person. I am tired of being the only one who's trying to make the relationship work. I think I'm done
2 responses
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
22 Jun 07
Run far and run fast this guy will be nothing but a heartache. I settled with boyfriends that were horrible because I was young and didn't think I could do better. I let them walk all over me. Then one day I met the perfect man. It took 5 years for us to get together and we were friends that whole time and when we finally got together I knew he was right for me. He treats me with respect and it certainly was a nice change. Nobody deserves to be treated like they aren't special and I think you should move on and find Mr. Right. He is out there somewhere.
@pallidyne (858)
• United States
22 Jun 07
More power to you. There are better guys out there, who will give you better love, attention, and respect. I hope you are able to make a real clean break and find someone new soon!