Are there still honest people in the world?
By mermaid911
@mermaid911 (798)
Philippines
June 23, 2007 4:02am CST
I met a lot of people who lie & cheat like its a very normal thing to do. This world is filled with lots of corrupt people who step on other people with every opportunity they get. In this site, a lot of people complain because they've been cheated. Do people in this world still value honesty? I was just wondering. If there are people out there who still think that honesty is still the best policy, please make yourself known so we can still identify the people we can trust.
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25 responses
@ghreizahnne (244)
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
yeah. that's true. there are still lots of honest people here on earth. It's just that many people are having a corrupt attitude. the politicians are the great example of that. because it's very tempting when you are in their position.and sometimes we are also corrupt in our own way. We lied to our mother that we need money but the turth is we dont ned that much but we ask more than that. We study that its because when the time that philippines is under the colonial countries like american and spain,the corrupt people in that country are thrown to our country, that's why we have an attitude of that.The only way to control that is to have a fear to God.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I know you can relate with me in this aspect because we are surrounded by lots of liars and cheaters in the Phils. This is of course led by our country's top leaders. This is our sad situation. In lots of places, you'll be warned to watch out for pickpockets or to watch your belongings at all times. This is precisely the reason why I'm asking if there are still a lot of honest people because I am seeing a lot of dishonesty around me. Asking more money than you really need from your mother because you want to pocket the rest is not a valid reason. I am always honest in asking from my mom and give her back the change. As a result, she gives me more than I ask of her or even if I don't ask, she just offers. This is because she knows she can trust me and that she knows that the money wont go to waste. I hope more people will fear God to avoid telling lies. Have a great day! Thanks for your response.
@Mikie770 (4)
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5 Jul 10
Hello
I am so happy to come across such kind of discussion.
I was looking for years to find people ..Honest people to talk about this subject.
i don't remember ever coming into any place that talks about honesty!
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THIS WONDERFUL OPPERTUNITY!
let me say this.
Honesty and Truthfull people are the most Admired people in the world in my family and in my upbringing.
now as long as people don't notice, value, and admire it and look up at these people's values the world will less and less look up on these people that have these high values!
thats one of the only ways how to get it in to the young generation.
today who is admired...A Rock Star...A Movie Star...He can be a Rotten guy inside out but he is a Rock star or a poletition!
think about what i am saying.
Lets hope to see a better world for all of us
Thank you
Michael
@mattyg2k7 (215)
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23 Jun 07
i think there are still lots of honust people and i am one i allways tell the truth and i hardly ever lye except maybe the couple of white lyes lol but they are ok as they dont hurt any one
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@dio123 (1788)
• India
23 Jun 07
I am with you Still I believe the number of honest and good hearted peoples are more in numbers than the bad guys but the honest guys are not in the limelight or they do not want it as they are good they just do their duty and go away
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
Hello! Its nice to know that there are still people who value honesty. We'll keep counting and through your responses we will be able to find out more or less how many people in myLot value honesty. I hope this is reflective of the world's values. Thanks for your response.
@koikoikoi (1246)
• United States
23 Jun 07
Yes, but they are very hard to find. I'm a honest and cheat-free guy. I tell the truth about everything even if it hurts me or the person I'm telling it to. As for cheat-free if I'm going out with a girl and I want to ask another girl out I finish it off with the first girl. Their cheat-free and honest. Although I haven't done that, and I don't plan to that is what should be done instead of cheating.
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@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
That's great! I hope to see more honest guys in the world. Please remember to stick with honesty. There are only a few honest people left in the world. Let's uphold it. Thanks for your response.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I'm glad to know that. You are right. One who is honest to himself is honest to others. In fact, the opposite is also true: one who is honest to others, is honest to himself. If you are true to others then you will have a clear conscience and you are true to yourself as well. If you cheat other people the very first person you are fooling is yourself. You might be able to get away with your acts but you will reap the consequences later on. It was nice discussing with you. Thanks for your response.
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@dheaja (171)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 07
I always wonder the same thing. It's quite astonish that a lot of people like to lie, doing it daily and have no regret of it. The worst part of a lie is not to regret it. I think everybody ever lie though they don't do it intentionaly. Sometime there's situation that make us think it's better to lie. But I do believe there's still honest people in this world and I hope I'm one of them. :)
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@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
That's nice. I absolutely agree with you that the worst part of a lie is not to regret it and the saddest part of it is that a lot of people have no regrets of lying. Lying & cheating repeatedly makes a habitual liar without any guilts. Yes, there are situations when we really have to lie to protect something important but as much as possible we really have to be totally honest because in the end we'll just be fooling ourselves if we aren't. Thanks for your response. Its nice to get to know an honest person. More power to you.
@2wicelot (2945)
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23 Jun 07
There are time when it just seems there are no more good and honest people left in the world but then surpising you find a lot of honest people. I think there are a lot of people who are honest in this world still. It may just be a little hard to find them sometimes.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
Thanks for this reassurance. It is difficult to find them perhaps because they are fading away or they simply like to hide their good deeds. I think we should highlight the honest acts of people because these are admirable deeds in this dishonesty-invaded world of ours. Thanks for speaking out. We should fight more for our values.
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@mugna_1964 (106)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
of course! though there are thousands of dishonest people, i believe there are honest ones left....the world will never have just one type of people, there will always the good ones and there will be bad ones, yin and yang, black and white, sweet and sour.,...
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I know this of course but it just seems that the honest people are not highlighted in this world. Its always the crimes and dishonesty of people that's highlighted. It is precisely for this reason that I posted this question. To remind people of the value of honesty and to get a profile of people's opinions on honesty. Thanks for responding.
@paradise12 (938)
• India
24 Jun 07
Now in this generation there lots of people who lie nad cheat and this is increasing day by day....you hardly get people who are honest and are modest...
But now even if somebody tells the truth nobody beleive and they would laugh at you for being honest and sincere...Its of no use telling truth,and if you are innocent then that person can't survive in this world...
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
Its good that you recognize this thing. you cannot just sit back and look at people while they are being ridiculed for telling the truth. We should do our part by standing up for the truth and for people who are telling the truth. If all of us do this, we can probably turn the situation around and bring back the world to times when dishonest people where looked down in the society. We can all do our share of work in this sad situation. Thanks for your opinion.
@Jermboy608 (53)
• United States
24 Jun 07
Oh I am a huge believer in honesty! I am always honest with people because I believe dishonesty is never something that should be used. Dishonesty has really made things different between me and a good friend because I didn't know when to trust him because he lied to me a lot.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
This is absolutely right. More power to honesty! Thanks for your response.
@AMDonovan06 (46)
• United States
24 Jun 07
I have been asking myself the same question for a while. It seems like nobody is truly honest anymore. I've met very few people who try to be, but so many people don't think it matters, which is really too bad because it ruins a lot of lives.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
You are absolutely right. Dishonesty ruins the life of a lot of people. Not only of others but especially of the dishonest people. I'm glad I found somebody who thinks the same way. Since there are lots of us, I think we should influence more people to value honesty. Maybe by then, we can live in a more honest world. Thanks for your response.
@poetshannon (113)
• United States
24 Jun 07
what a good question! i would like to think there is still honest people in the world but,the more i watch the news or read the paper i am prove to be wrong. i try to be honest but, idon't like to hurt others so sometime i may lie a little not to.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I can relate with your experience. That's precisely the reason why I posted this question. It does seem as if dishonesty is eating the world. Its good that you try your best to be honest. You can start by that and maybe influence more people to do the same. If we all do this, the world will be filled with more honest people. Hurray to honesty! Have fun telling the truth! Thanks for your response.
@yuanchang (474)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
as far as i am concerned, i can really say that there are more people who lie and cheat than honest people. our family has experienced a lot of hardships because people take advantage of our kindness that we end up being lied and cheated by them. i am happy to say that our family is very honest but sad to say that we have a lot of friends who took advantage of us.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I am sad with what happened to you but I salute you for keeping a positive attitude on this. I know that people like to take advantage of you when you're honest. Be cautious in dealing with others. Don't give as much information as you ought to. We dont necessarily have to lie to protect ourselves from abusers, we can just keep our distance from them. Don't worry, these people who cheat and lie will reap their consequences later on. Meanwhile, you will not go unrewarded for your goodness. Be strong! Thanks for sharing your opinion.
@decent07 (232)
• India
24 Jun 07
yes here is lots people around us who are honeest and nice its up to us to recognise them.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
its nice to know your'e one of them. yes, its up to us to recognize the honest people. more power to honesty! Thanks for responding.
@primeinfotech (185)
• India
24 Jun 07
I would say still there is honest people in this world. I have met many peoples some of them I found as cheat but what I feel those who trust on GOD might be honest.
Now days everyone is running behind money , now money is everything for living, thats why for earning more money persons are cheating others. Many peoples are telling lie to others for sake of earning more money.
But some persons are still using their ethics or their honesty.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
23 Jun 07
There are still people out there that are thrustworthy, the hard thing is that people tend to remember bad things done to them more easily than the good ones. When someone does something severe to you, it will last longer on your mind then the couple of nice smiles you got in the supermarket, or the compliment the neighbour gave you. These are all good things from good people.
If you are talking about true friendship, that's a whole other story. These only come by once in a while. One can count themselve lucky having a true friend that's allways there for them.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I see a lot of good people around but even these so called "good people" do not hesitate to lie sometimes. Its like honesty has no value for them anymore. I have several honest true friends but what I'm wary about are the new people I meet around or in the net. You are right, a true and honest friend is a treasure. Thanks for your response.
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
24 Jun 07
The moral norms vary and the people just adapt the moral to their own interests. So there is no perfect honesty. The line between speculation, cheating and crime is slim.If i assert my interests and i am in atmosphere of business what demands maneuvres-i will be combinative and adaptive. I will not be 100% honest because i will be treated as a fool and my business will not survive. But i will not be a cheater in the rude sense of the word nor a criminal.
Many people have the same way of thinking as mine.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I believe that there are no gray areas between honesty and dishonesty. You are either honest or dishonest. Whether it is a crime or not, is not the issue. A dishonest act will always be a dishonest act. You can always act like a someone smart before your colleagues but who are you fooling? Being dishonest is fooling yourself first and foremost. We know what we are doing but we just want to hide our wrongdoings in different names to justify our actions. We have to learn to be honest to ourselves first then being honest to others will come easier.
@gotcho0O (1257)
• United States
23 Jun 07
I'm totally honest that's why people do gossips that I always go bar hopping and all that, but that was before. I don't want to hide anything, I'm like what you see is what you get. Therefore, I'm real and not plastic. But somehow, I need to do some white lies too. So, I think there are no people in this mundane world who are honest anymore. Because white lies are still lie.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
Yes, white lies are still lies and it sends signals to people that you aren't totally honest. However, I think that white lies can be avoided if you resolve to. It is important to avoid telling white lies because eventually you wont be telling white lies only but all kinds. If lying can become a habit if you do it repeatedly, I believe that telling the truth can also become a habit if you do it repeatedly. If you fail the first time, that's ok just resolve to do better next time. I would rather have a friend that's reputed to a bad person than a dishonest person who gives everybody the impression that he is honest. yes, it is better to be real than faking things. I hope everybody gets to fight the temptation to lie easily. Thanks for your opinion on this.
@lizeri (533)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I still believe, there are some. God won't allow them to vanish. I appreciate those who are very honest because they are people whom you can rely on if ever.
I have this experience wherein I ordered sushi that is only 4 pieces but the crew gave me 6 pieces. I didn't hesitate to return it immediately due to the fact that I only paid the price that is for the 4-pieces. After that, it gave me a light feeling and I even enjoyed eating what I bought.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
Congratulations on your honesty. I hope there would be more people like you. May your race increase. Let us work to fill the world with honest people. Thanks for your response. Its nice to know another honest person.
@tdbrower1969 (1242)
• United States
24 Jun 07
I have to agree, I think there are still honest people in the world. I know that there are many who lie to get what they want, and I have a few friends that do this and seem to get away with it, but I know that they are lying and that makes me sad to see this. I feel that honesty is always the best policy. If someone where to ask me not to repeat something, and then another someone asks me the if I know what the other person is hiding, I just say that I won't break a promise and have been asked not to discuss it. I try to teach my son honesty and integrity and I don't want to have to explain to him about a lie that I told, so I try very hard to always be truthful. I think that most people are this way, sometimes we see or feel that we see more bad than good.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
Yes, i see more bad than good. As Ive responded to others, i think its because most people discuss the dishonesties of other people more than their honesties. Teaching your son honesty is the best move you can do to ensure the perpetuation of honesty in this world. I get so disappointed seeing parents who model lies to their kids. We might think they cannot understand this but we must not underestimate kids. I hope a lot of parents will be like you. more power to you! thanks for your response.
@11BIGATOM11 (196)
• Australia
24 Jun 07
of course there are. In fact most people in the world are descent honest, hard working people who are trying to make a living.
However, there are so dishonest ane corrupt individuals; but they are a minority.
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I hope you are right about this. I would like to believe that you are and I would like to see this a reality. Thanks for your positive view of this issue.