What to do when a friend of yours wants to suicide?
By DawGwath
@DawGwath (1042)
Romania
June 23, 2007 4:50am CST
I have a good friend which I met about 8 months ago. He was a happy person then, and seemed he enjoyed life. He's an atheist, likes informatics and programming, mostly 3D graphics, he likes (or liked) philosophy, honest and a good friend to have. But things changed a month ago, when he started to have suicidal tendencies. He almost succeeded, but I managed to stop him, with the help of some good friends. But I was the only one to whom he would listen too. I tried to show him that life is worth living, and that he's an important person and loved person (as he believed that no one cares about him, and he's a burden to this world). After that passed, a week ago things started to get worse again. He only talked to me, but with the same calm and smiling behavior, like there's unusual in doing this. Now he is saying that he wants to do this because he can't stand for all the evil in this world, the corruption and suffering, and he keeps believing that there's going to be something better in another life. He even came to "take in consideration the existence of souls and o higher power, or other worlds, but even if they don't, I got nothing to loose" like he used to say. I think I've spent lots of nights with him, talking and philosophizing about life and death. He placed another date, like he did last time, now it's 11th July. I don't know what else to do, it's like I tried to do everything. My girl even had a nervous breakdown because of him, and got really sick, because she always involves in helping people, but in this particular case, she just couldn't take it anymore.
What do you think, is he going to do it, or not? If he is, what else should I do?
I forgot to mention that he also had problem with drugs (heroin), but I also helped him get over it.
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@miryam (6505)
• Italy
23 Jun 07
Fortunately me never it is not capitato, I would try to speak, to renounce, perhaps but it is little, if creed is decided that null it can be made unfortunately.
BYE Myry
But live is now and so beatifull i not understand that choise....i'm in weelchairs and love my live too-----------
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@DawGwath (1042)
• Romania
23 Jun 07
Yes he is very determined to do it, and every time he comes with a counter-argument to every argument I give. I'm sorry that you have to use a wheelchair, but I'm proud of you, and every other person in this world that has a disability or a dysfunction, but still enjoy life at its best. I think every one of them deserves a medal ;)
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
30 Oct 07
He could be suffering from clinical depression and also he feels he has nothing left to lose. After all, he does not believe in God and in fact, does not believe that is a God, so therefore he feels that when he goes, there is going to be nothing. He does seem the evil in the world, and you could tell him that there were times more evil than this, and people did not jump off bridges, shoot themselves, or took poison. Appeal to his sense of honor, that it is the coward's way out to kill himself, if he is open to knowing about God, tell him, but please tell him to see a counselor or a doctor.
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