Is it really needed to say "I love you"?
By blog8withJ
@blog8withJ (136)
United States
June 23, 2007 1:20pm CST
(I mean this to your gf,bf, husbands or wives)
Action speaks louder than words. I prefer someone who will do the things for me,do me a favor and even make me impress through her/ his action. Words can be sometimes a mere words but they really not meant it. Others would say it but really become unfaithful and will leave eventually. When you loved a person, you will show it with a sincere heart. What about you? Do you say "I love you" more often?
1 response
@Amstardam (1348)
• United States
23 Jun 07
love you" to someone in order for them to know that you do love them because that's the way they understand love.
It's easier to understand people once you know how they express their love. It's easy to know that you are loved too.
@Amstardam (1348)
• United States
23 Jun 07
ah! How did that happen? Half my message dissapeared! I'm sorry about that!
Oy! Here it goes again.
Have you read the book "The Five Languages of Love?" I haven't, haha! But I've heard it is a wonderful book to read. It talks about the different ways in which people give and view love.
I think it says the five are: touch, gifts, time, words, and actions. Every person responds to these differently. Every person gives differently.
In order to understand each other better, we must understand how each one of us understands love. If your view of love is through actions, then show it to those whom you love. If it's an issue with someone in your life, have a sit down and explain to them that this is how you show your love. Sometimes other people understand through words and you may need to let them know your love by using words.
I think it's great to communicate about this because everyone struggles with the thought of whether they're loved or not. If everyone understood how each person in their life showed love, the world would be different.
