strangers touching your pregnant belly
By nmw2005
@nmw2005 (1197)
United States
June 23, 2007 1:26pm CST
I have a question. Why is it that a women belly is like a magnet for other people hands. Friend, family and even strangers think nothing of it to come and touch "the belly" they don't even bother to ask first. Is it wrong to tell people to stop touching you? As for family and friends out of respect I think that they should ask if it is okay. What are you opinions?
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5 responses

@ctv101103 (859)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
i feel the same way. i can tolerate family and close friends. but i don't like strangers touching my pregnant belly.

@avonrep1 (1862)
• United States
24 Jun 07
When you are pregnant it is like people can't help but do that. I use to tell them not to touch me that I didn't like to be touched, and though somewhat rude of me, it worked, and people wouldn't touch. It is your body and out of respect, people should ask before touching.
@FSCAries (881)
• United States
23 Jun 07
I have never just taken it upon myself to touch someones pregnant belly, and to me, it is astonishing that anyone would think that is appropriate. Everyone deserves to have their personal space respected and there is even a commercial on T.V. about that. I certainly would tell people to back off if I were in that situation.
@shemah (840)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 07
honestly, i wouldn't tolerate it one bit! I am one not to invade someone's personal space and I would think i'm harassing that person, UNLESS that person takes my hand and brings it to her belly.
I am 5 months pregnant now, and if someone did that to me, i would tell them nicely to back off (if they didn't mean any harm.. esp. friends and family). if it were strangers, i'd push their hands away. Seriously, i would. You have the right to feel offended.. even if they didn't mean to offend you.
@feshafe1 (1)
• United States
24 Jun 07
It iis alright for some people to touchyour belly, but don't let every do it. There are too many people out there with bad spirits, and you dont want them to affect your baby. just be careful
