to avoid arguments, do you keep quiet or shut?

Normally I try to have the last word lol. But if I can't get it easily because the other party is e.g. too stubborn, I will just stop arguing and let me. What a waste of time.:P

i shut up, then when she/he is no longer in an argument mood i will talk to him again.

If it's a petty issue I might, but if it's something important, then I can def be very loud,lol.

well.if any disputes,arguments arises i will dominate the whole situation wity words heheh..I will say am always correct.am the person who domiantes everybody in my family and they shut their mouth most of the times,yeah there are some situations where i kept my mouth shut to avoid further arguments but they are very very less.i too agree they are waste of time but i think nobody can stop it .they become common and we face them frequently.i see so many poeple who are married after a deep love for some years also have some arguments about their family matters and i think they also help us take good decision in some matters.good argument always helps.but bad one always brings gap