Would you enter a relationship with a guy/gal just for his LOOKS?
By seksiconnie
@seksiconnie (1173)
Philippines
June 23, 2007 11:29pm CST
I'd rather have a serious relationship with someone I love and care for. There's a big difference between love and physical attraction.
82% - If he's an jerk, you'll just get tired of his good looks.
18% - I'd be proud to walk around with him, plus, I'll be the envy of all other girls.
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7 responses
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
24 Jun 07
When I was single, there were a couple of times that I was tempted to date someone just for looks. However, I just could never get myself to do it. There are so many things that are more important to me, like sense of humor, common values, interests, etc.
I have dated several jerks just because they asked me at a time when I felt I really needed to be with someone, and some of them were pretty attractive. I learned my lesson from them, and would never date anyone I wasn't sure about again!
My husband I met online first, and while I did really like his picture, since we were talking online there were many things that took precedence over looks. There are some things about his looks that other people find imperfect, but after eight years of being together I can still say he is my wonderful lovely sexy husband! =P
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@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
you know what, i'm hundred percent sure that i wanted to find my kind of guy here in mylot..hekhek.. your story is so sweet.. and i'm aware that i'm finding one..hehe.. thank's for sharin your story..
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@paradise12 (938)
• India
24 Jun 07
This would be a blunder if i just have a relationship because of looks...Initially i must be happy that he is handsome but then because of his nature or if he is a jerk then i won't feel like staying with him...I would be uncomfortable and won't open up....so its better i choose a person who loves me and i can stay happy with him...
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@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
go stay happy :) it's what really is inside that counts :)thanks :)
@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
wehehe...you have to... but i'm sure you're wife's proud to have you...have a great day ! :)
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
24 Jun 07
Oh no! Looks mean nothing to me and I have seen so many nice looking guys acting like jerks all my life and I am not really attracted to nice looking guys anymore. I would rather go for someone who is caring, humorous and manly. I think personalities count in a relationship, there is no point to be with someone if they can't communicate or be affectionate. I think a relationship means deeper than that. And everyone gets old anyway, so looks don't matter to me.
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@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
definitely! looks are just bonus.. thanks for sharin' :)
@helenying (120)
• China
24 Jun 07
Well, I never enter a relationgship with a gur just for his look. For my introversion, I will not start a conversation activly with a stranger, however he looks. So I have no chance to do that. hehe
Good looks is really attractive. But connotation is more important, I think.
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@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
true,it would be a mistake to look at someone's physical appearance.. thanks :)
@Superfluous (284)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
It depends, if I have special feelings for the guy then why not.. but if I'm only attracted by his good looks then I won't waste my time over it. I prefer having a serious relationship than just a fling. :) *sigh...*
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@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
lol
way to go girl.. true, you can have flings but not take it seriously...it's the feelings for them that make's them handsome anyway..thanks for sharin'..