What Is The Best Thing To Do???Find Your Love...Or Let Love Find You???

Philippines
June 24, 2007 4:54am CST
I really dont know what to do right now.I did my best to find the love of my life.Signing up some dating site,chatting,meeting new people,having new friends,dating too but still, i didnt able to find the right one.Sometimes,i told myself to be alone for the rest of my life because i am being tired on finding my love.But i know deep inside my heart,that i need someone to be with me.Who can truly love me and which i can love him too... If i let the love find me,how could it be happen???Serendipity???Miracle???Ohhh...Maybe im losing my faith... So what is the best thing to do???
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10 responses
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
You don't have to run after love.. love will find you wherever you are. Just be natural and choose good friends so you can find good people only.
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@sumitsonu (598)
• India
24 Jun 07
the best thing to do is neither find your love not let your lovr find you...its like if u are destined to meet u will surely meet one day and fall in love ...without pressurizing ur mind to let u fall in love with that person
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
you just wait for the right love, in the right time, do not look for love, let love find you. just do not lose your faith in love, be hopeful. and most of all pray to god, he will guide you! good day
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
How i wish,i could have some hope when it comes to love matter...
• Pakistan
25 Jun 07
Well to be honest I share those same sentiments as you but let's just say they are buried way too deep in my heart. I been through quite a lot of relationships and I have indeed experienced the loss of the loved ones due to many reason and I know it can get pretty empty inside you. Love is more complex than we think, some people believe that love can be found in places that you cannot think of, some believe that you just have to go out there and look sky high to find your true love and then there are others that believe that love eventually finds you and then there is me who is a mixture of all the three, a bit low on the second one though. Maybe you need to start looking for love in the right places and places where you least expect it to be. I hope that you find that special someone real soon :)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Nice thoughts.I will try to find my love day by day.Lol...
@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Maybe this is not the time. Just learn to wait, enjoy your life everyday! To love and being loved is not only the reason why we exist.
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
25 Jun 07
Let love find you. There is no need to find love because it will find you not the other way around. stay true to your faith and you will be blessed by love that your searching for.
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@naadia (828)
• India
26 Jun 07
mmm...i lost my faith in love.i was in love for more than 1 year but now we broke up.i am trying to forgot it.and according to me "let love find you" is far better than "find your love".i have experienced that.may be that is not love just teenage attraction or something like that.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
For I'm a single mom and since I was separated from my husband I did'nt find love for me and maybe even if I'm single I won't find love. I do believed in destiny If it is meant for me to have one well good but I will not find just to make me happy. In your situation, try to wait and dont lose your hope cause someday there will be a person that is meant relly for you, and will be with you for the rest of your life.
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@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
24 Jun 07
I think its better to let love find you. It is much sweeter and it is more true. When you force yourself to love someone, you are more prone to mistakes. Mistakes that you will later regret. Just wait, don't get impatient, love will always find a way. Good Luck!
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@venous (32)
• India
24 Jun 07
Dear Gwapako...hi, I know we become desperate to find somebody and we often become restless, lose all together our faith and hope and even we become irretable, least we think ourselves to be less blessed. I mean We because I too travel in the same ship as you do. But over time I realised that all that happens to us is already written what we call 'FATE', Time does all magic and we have to wait for our turn. My belief is for every man there is a women made and who meets who, how and where is in the hands of time. So let time decide what it wants from us. Best of luck. may every thing will be as you wished for. your waiting will be proved worth while in time to come.
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