When do you become unfaithful?
By chittyorama
@chittyorama (14)
June 24, 2007 8:35am CST
I have this friend, and even though she is happily married, she has started 'talking' to this bloke on line and we were talking about this last night, when does this become her being unfaithful to her husband? Where is the line that she shouldn't cross? Is she cheating on him by flirting with him online? As she thinks about him alot, does that mean that she has gone too far?
Where do you think that the line needs to be drawn? Is she already being unfaithful to her husband by talking to him? What do you think?
2 responses
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
24 Jun 07
I have several online men that I talk with and e-mail and also play online games with, my husband knows about all of them and I share stories with him about what was said or maby a story the guy shared with me.I also can say that sometimes i think about them at different times,but it is only in a friendly way.
I believe you cross the line when it all becomes secretive and you dont share what is going on with your husband and family. I think when it comes down to she has to talk to this person daily and spends all her online time with this fellow than ya she has crossed the line.
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@mmorgan100 (66)
• United States
24 Jun 07
I agree. Chatting online is fine until it becomes something that you can't or won't share with your spouse.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
24 Jun 07
Well i think the person himself or herself should judge by her ownself or the husband or wife should judge yea ... by all means there should be some form of communications yea
