Everyone has a friend like this...

United States
June 24, 2007 1:57pm CST
well i have a couple friends that i adore...but!!! when we hang out and it could be just girls or not, but somehow i and whoever else with us is used like a pawn in her relationship. we always have to see her man, be in the area with him and sometimes even asked if I could call him over or what ever the case was that time. i just dont understand why we have to dragged into it. i mean why cant she just hang out with us, then she could do whatever else on her own time...i have just a little problem with that. not sure is what to do because now when i think of hanging out with her, i think of what she's going to ask of me...
1 response
• United States
24 Jun 07
You ought to address the problem in a way that won't jeprodize your relationship with her. If it's something that's bugging you, tell her you need to talk privately, or get someone to go with you and tell her how you feel. She may just say that she just wants to hang out with a lot of friends, but if it's really that bad, tell her she's neglecting her other friends.