For the ladies

@latsmom (824)
June 24, 2007 2:22pm CST
Imagine you ahve been with a guy a while an dhe begins to suffer errection problems, would yous tand by him to try and help hi through what ever is wrong or would you just assume he is seeing someone else and no longer interested. I read in a magazine earlier today about one couple and it turned out the guy actually was very poorly adn he lost everything because his wife accused his lack of performance on an affair that never existed. What would you do?
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@Katagiri (426)
• Brazil
24 Jun 07
I agree with eden32. ED is not the guy's fault, we should see a doctor and I would stay by his side and help him trough the treatment.
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@latsmom (824)
24 Jun 07
Good advice, we shoudl stand by our man through such hard time snot shun them.
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
24 Jun 07
I wouldn't assume my partner is seeing someone else because of ED (erectile dysfunction). Many cheaters continue to be intimate with their partners without any problems! If it happened more than a couple of times, I would strongly encourage him to see his doctor. This is a normal side effect of some medications & of aging in men. Sometimes the medication they're on needs to be adjusted & sometimes they need a little help from viagra or similar meds.
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@latsmom (824)
24 Jun 07
I totally agree, it is a shame when conclusions are jumped to in this way, there are so many things that can cause these problems, such as emotional and medical.
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@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
26 Jun 07
I don't think I would accuse him of having an affair, but I would be concerned about how he feels about me. I think I would be worried that he doesn't find me attractive enough anymore or something. That would be kind of a tough situation.
• United States
5 Jul 07
The biggest and most important part of a relationship is trust. If you cannot trust - you have nothing. Hence, of course I can and will stand by my man as we have made a commitment to one and other.
@tantal25 (838)
• United States
28 Jun 07
it is not the guys fault that he had erectile dysfunction. if that would happen to me, i would understand him because no man would want to suffer from erectile dysfunction.
@smacksman (6053)
1 Jul 07
If that happened to me I would certainly ask for a helping hand. haha
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
s&x is about performance... i guess if you cant perform then whats the use of keeping you? well if theres love involve then my decision will change of course.