!@#$*&% !@#$*&%Frustated !@#$*&% !@#$*&%
By laltu86
@laltu86 (1249)
India
June 24, 2007 3:51pm CST
I dont understand why this is happening , and that too to me , i was out for a mnonth due to my semester exams , when i returned back to mylot i was very much excited as the gap has created a load of new ideas and posts in my mind i though I would receive a warm welcome back, i posted 3 topics that day and ii received only a couple of responses in them , so i thought that its ok my friends might have missed the point that i am back again but now its a week and still my response list is going weak , I respond to all my friends i am earning good i have no problem with that but the earning is because i am responding to more than 100 posts a day , but why arent my friends responding to my posts is one answer which is out of my vivid imagination , am i forgotten , am i not posting good enough discussions , what am i doing wrong because prior to my leave i used to get great responses from my friends , whats happening , and why is it happening at all ?
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9 responses
@anjrit (997)
• Indonesia
25 Jun 07
welcome back guys.might be it caused with your discussion that didn't catch your friends to response even you have come back.but it would not be happen if your friend's here is very close to you.is there some friends who ask you where you go?if there was,I think he/she is your trully friends here.Maybe you can send a private message to your friend just to make them remember that you had back to mylot.
@brandonknies (305)
• United States
24 Jun 07
maybe your friends arent able to come in right now. i know at least one friend of mine that i used to talk to all the time hasn't been on in months. don't worry about it. i get friend requests at least once every time i get on this site. just make some more friends. that way you still have people to talk to, and then when your other friends come back online, you can talk to them as well. it isn't bad at all.
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@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
25 Jun 07
I can't say for sure why this is happening but have seen on other discussions where when one doesn't answer for awhile they delete the person assuming they are not participating with MyLot anymore . Have you checked your friends list to see if the individuals that used to respond are still on your list .
No matter what the reason just keep trying and your friends will realize you are back again and will respond more .
Take Care !!
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@DanaMark (807)
• United States
24 Jun 07
I'm new to myLot since you last posted. I'm guessing your friends just don't know you are back yet. Maybe their interests have changed. Maybe their reasons for posting have changed. Maybe they don't have as much time anymore. Maybe they are burned out on posting. Keep posting good discussions and either your friends will return or you'll make new friends, or both!
@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
25 Jun 07
Oh, don't be frustrated, all your friends will soon discover you're back and you'll get a lot responses again. As for me, I'm able to post 2-3 times a day only, I've been so busy lately, and now my vacation does end tomorrow, and it means I have even less time... No hope to reach payout this month too. How did you pass your exams? Flying colours, hopefully? LOL
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
25 Jun 07
If you have been gone for a month there is a chanse that alot of people has erased you from their list, or their memory. A month here is a long time.
I am sure that if u leep writing discussions they will come around and so will some new friends,
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@egfitz62150 (645)
• United States
25 Jun 07
Fear not! There are probably many like myself who answer in fits and starts to begin with. Personally, I have days -- sometimes many in a row -- where I haven't the energy or clarity of mind to respond to anyone, either in my daily life or here on MyLot. So, try not to take these things too personally!
