what is the right time to get married?
By PinkBlush69
@PinkBlush69 (62)
Philippines
June 24, 2007 7:45pm CST
I am 21. Still confused bout marriage life, but what about true love comes? should i tell him to wait? or should i say yes? how bout you? what age do u want to settle down?
6 responses
@biznizman01 (581)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Getting married takes a lot of responsibilities. The right time would depend on the following:
1) You must be financially ready.
2) You must be emotionally mature.
3) You must be spiritually mature.
4) Ready to take on the responsibilities of being parents.
5) Ready to give up your single life. There are a lot of things you must give up when you are married. And there are certain things you can no longer do when you are married.
6) Do your homework about the guy. He is the type you would want to spend the rest of your life with. Is he the responsible kind of guy and does not play around.
7) Other stuff. Like are you compatible, is he the jealous type, is he a good father material. etc...
@biznizman01 (581)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Yeah you should list it down. Whenever you do decide to get married please first attend a seminar then decide to push thru or not with the wedding. Some couples plan their wedding before attending a seminar which is pretty much illogical.
The wedding itself is easy. Its the married life that will take a lot of work. And another think, make sure you are in good terms with the in-laws and love them as your own. This is a source of a lot of fights in the future. If there is no love for them (the in-laws) this would be a major headache in the future.
@PinkBlush69 (62)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
with all the explanations u gave to me seems that u are married already? wow ive got so many things to consider then..you think love can stand alone? can stand alone with the countless challenges in life?
@PinkBlush69 (62)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Whew! guess i have to list this things down..now that u tell me it makes me think billion times to get married..ehheh..
@brandonknies (305)
• United States
25 Jun 07
you should settle down whenever you feel comfortable doing so. i for example am only twenty, but i am engaged, have a daughter, and will be getting married before too long. when you want to get married is up too you. when you are ready go for it. no one can tell you when you should or shouldn't get married
@PinkBlush69 (62)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
You're a risk taker brandon.;-) whats the name of your daughter? extend my hi to her..and your lucky wifey..God bless..Ill follow my heart..
@maictorek (83)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
i'm 24 and my partner asked me to get married by next year. i said no. why? i'm not ready - emotionaly, and most especially financially. i dun think there's actually a "right time" to get married. c'mon, you're still 21, enjoy life as it is - go out with friends, flirt endlessly, be competive. you won't be able to explore so much when you're settled down. well, at least these are my reasons.
@heartsick (832)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
well some say the best time to get married is when you reach 25.. but for me, and for others too, i prefer getting marry if i'm sure that i am ready for all the consequences of all my decision. like 30's i guess.. haha.. am i getting sense here.?
@PinkBlush69 (62)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Right, u have your point there heart..am just confused bout whos the right guy,haahah! ey..salamat for the comment:-) teecee aight?!
@dayong1113cn (311)
• China
28 Jul 07
in my opinion,if boy and girl love each other ,and their parents agree with them,they should get married.in my country,26-30 are common ages to get married.
