Would you talk to him.

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So I met this guy a few months back, at work, and we talked on the phone for about a month, about GOD, and relationships, and what we want from someone we plan to marry. Then I finally decided that it seemed safe enough to go on a date, I asked him where we would go, and he said that since he had just gotten off of work, he didn't really want to go out anywhere cause he was all dirty, he lives at least 2 hours away from me, and he had to take a shower. So he was going to get a hotel room here in my area, to take a shower, and then we could go somewhere. He invited me to go with him and wait that way he didn't have to go there and then pick me up. After a lot of protest and conversation, I agreed. Wrong move! We got there, we talked for a long time about GOD, and our weaknesses, for about 2 hours, we just talked. Well then he laid down on the bed, to wach t.v. and after a little asked me if we could cuddle, I was hesitant at first but eventually I did, then that turned in to kissing, and, well you got the rest! I was so hurt by my own actions, I am not this type of woman, who does this on the first date, or even after months, sometimes years of dateing. I cried, I was so ashamed! I never talked to him again, he called but I never answered! He showed up at my door yesturday, I never expected him to do that. He said that he wanted to come over and appologise for what happend and that he never ment to hurt me if he had, he also said that he thinks he's in love with me because he hasn't been able to stop thinking of me since then. He wanted to have permission to start calling me again. I said okay, but that I would never go to a private place with him again. Not that I blame him, but I don't trust myself when I'm with him, since he's so good at swindeling me into doing something he knows I wouldn't have done! I want to know what you all think I should do, should I say you know I'm sorry but I don't think that we should talk. Or do you think that him going totally out of his way to appologise should give him another chance? Let me know I really want all of your oppinions?