Does your boyfriend go through all your stuff?
By Ploy1854
@Ploy1854 (59)
Canada
June 24, 2007 10:54pm CST
I used to have one who went through all my stuff. He always offer to carry my bag and purse when we were in school. I didn't mind if he would know how much money I have, what did I write in my diary, or etc. But what happened is that he found a love letter which another guy has just given to me and I didn't mean to keep it. It was a big surprise, and of course, he told me that he couldn't trust me anymore.
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
25 Jun 07
yes,he knows all my password and what I write in my diary,to him I almost do not have any secrets.and I know all his passwords and all his things,including his exgirlfriend and his message and colleagues.I think you should talk that with your boyfriend frankly,wish you good luck!
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
25 Jun 07
I had a boyfriend that did that I hated it because sometimes I would have monthly things in their and it embarassed me for him to see such things even though it happend to most woman and is a natural thing it still bugged me one thing he did though is slip notes in my purse as well for me to find later. My mom was always a nosy mom that always was going through my purse also to see what I was doing etc.. My husband is always getting in my purse to see if I have money and to get stuff out of it or sometimes to put money and stuff into it. I don't get into his walle though because it just make me feel like I am violating his privacy somehow. My sister in law is always telling me to get money out of his wallet but I haven't and probably won't. I don't get in people purses or anything But it seems everyone loves to look in mine my little sisters favorite play toy growing up was my purse.
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
30 Jun 07
He doesn't go through my stuff, and I don't go through his. We don't go through eachother's computers either. We love and trust eachother. Why should we need to?
I would have a big problem if he knew "how much money I had, what was in my bad, in my diary etc" to paraphrase the one who started this thread. I woudln't do that to him either.
@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Me and my boyfriend go through each other's stuff sometimes. It doesn't mean that we don't trust each other. We rarely see each other so it's just something that we do to always know about the other. When we see something suspicious, we ask, receive and explanation and that's it. End of story ^_^
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@migenKC (792)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
naks!! super...
im boyfriend knows everything on me expect my PAST... but when its the past thay comes trough the present.. i let him know...so we do not fight that much...
my boyfriend also opens my friendster accounts my e-mails and even my YM... there was sometime that he opened a love letter on my friendster telling that the guy misses me so much and will wait for me... but he didnt react negatively on it.. instead... he told me that he's not angry because he can understand that im a girl and its not my fault if i have admirers... he just remind me that i should not entertain their feelings but instead tell them i have someone special that makes my heart feel comfortable.
and i think your boyfriend should do the same thing as mine... by the way... you should also understand that he reacted like that because he was just afraid of losing you... just let him understand your side.. im sure you can fix it...
happy day... Take care