Do you think you will love one person forever?
By angela2006
@angela2006 (1845)
China
June 25, 2007 12:52am CST
how long could we love a person in our life? Does everlasting relationship exist? If somebody tells you, “ I'll love you for ever,” will you believe it?
I don't think there's any reason not to. we are ready to believe such commitment at the moment, whatever change may happen afterwards. as for the belief in an everlasting love, that's another thing.
so what is your ides on this?
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23 responses
@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
25 Jun 07
I believe in loving one person forever. If we don't, why do we all go through so much hassles, ups and downs to find the "right one"? I don't even think there is any reason to start a relationship if we don't believe in everlasting love in the first place. I think when my man tells me that he loves me forever, I believe it! At least it's how he feels exactly at that moment. If his mind changes afterwards, then it's another story. I will love someone forever, if me and him have worked hard in the relationship! And I really hope that I would end up with him forever!
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
26 Jun 07
once fall in love with one,we should love deeply and passionately,then we can enjoy our relationship and life completely although we maybe get hurt.
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
26 Jun 07
Yes it's hard to worry about hurting and be in a relationship! I experienced that before and I couldn't really concentrate on my relationship, it's not good. I think we should just dive ourselves in the relationships and let things lead us to where it should be! Thanks for the best response!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
I agree.
This is truly possible. If only people now-a-days learn to be more patient and understanding.
This has been done for years, it's only up to the present generation if they're going to allow their pride and ambition to destroy their family life.
I sure wish I could. I love my partner now and I am always praying to God to help us go through all the problems in life.
=)
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@rb200406 (1824)
• India
4 Jul 07
i think you can.Say me whether Parents don't love there children forever or children love there parents.There is always love between siblings Than why can't that be the case with partner.Actually with times one has to adapt to diffrenet stages of life.
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
4 Jul 07
thank you for your response and I believe in everlasting love in the world.
@Generis (145)
• China
26 Jun 07
I really don't believe someone's swear to me such as : " I'll love you foever" . I believe this sentence : " What a man said is different to his did" : ) We often wanna keep a relationship forever but often reality will let it break off . I would rather use this sentence : " concern somebody or think somebody " than to use " " love somebody foever" to describe the relationship between man and woman . But maybe this world have a eternal love but at this moment I still can't believe it .
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
26 Jun 07
I believe there is eternal love in the world,but it is very hard to do,so everlasting love is very seldom.
@helenying (120)
• China
26 Jun 07
I believe forever love. I think we should have the belif. Though it cann't be all true. When we fall in love with someone, we are thinking to love him/her for ever. At that moment, we believe we can love each other in all life. Maybe we can make it true. Maybe we break up some days after.
From my view, we cann't control everything, especially our sensation. So breaking up is not our fault. But we should hold the belif that there is everlasting love. And we must love each other at the moment. In fact, every the moment makeup ever.
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
26 Jun 07
waht you said is very right and I can not agree more with you.we should believe everlasting love anyhow.
@tumalty1980 (256)
•
25 Jun 07
Yes I believe in ever lasting love, and next Feb I will be getting married and declairing everlasting love in front of our families.
I know divorce seems to be the norm these day, But not in my family for some reason, My Granparents where married for 64 years My parents have been maried for 32 years so when they declaired thier everlasting love they must have ment it
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
26 Jun 07
my family are the same,and I am proud of living in this family.
@majhoe (17)
• South Korea
26 Jun 07
Maybe it works for others, not in all!If someone told me he will love forever.. i dont believe him at the moment he said it.Saying words is so easy but proving it is really a hard thing to do,right?It takes time and effort for me to belive him.He have to proves me that he mean it, not just saying those words!Cause inorder to prove one's love it takes a lifetime..
peace out!
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
26 Jun 07
yes,I agree with you,actually,you can not know if it is true until the lifetime is over.
@pendragon (3349)
• United States
25 Jun 07
I believe in reinacarnation and being around the same souls a lot until all the karma is worked out between everyone.I believe it takes some time to find the right one but once you do, it is forever.
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@punkish (424)
• India
25 Jun 07
well to b honest and 2 say from core of my heart i think i will do so..i ll luv only 1 gal forever in my life ..to whom i luv...coz u have to honest n luv itself means dat u honest to the one u like luv most.....i think i have enough control of myself n i respect my decision..
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
26 Jun 07
yes,I am the same now,I love my boyfriend very much,and I will never fall in love with others in the future.
@b_gryl (419)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
I don't know if i should believe a person who will say that he will love me forever. I also don't know if i can love a person forever. Well, i can't really control my feelings and i don't know what would i feel tomorrow, the next day, and so on. I think we can't really tell. If both person are destiny for each other i think their love will last forever.
@angela2006 (1845)
• China
26 Jun 07
we can not control tomorrow,but we can enjoy today with our heart.
@lexus54 (3572)
• Singapore
25 Jun 07
Sure, I will only love one person in my life, and that is the person I married. I can see my life heading this way. Both my wife and I take our marriage vows very seriously.
Everlasting love is not something up there in the clouds, or a pipedream. It can and will work if both the couple are serious in the relationship, have every desire to want to make it work and actually work hard at making it happen. It is a serious undertaking that is not to be taken frivolously, but if successful, the payback can be very rewarding. Just ask any couple who have been married twenty or thirty years. They will be so endeared to each other they will never want to part.
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
26 Jun 07
yeah,when we said"yes,I do "on the wedding,then we should try our best to do that in the future.
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
25 Jun 07
I dont believe in forever. Always remember that the constant thing in this world is change thus feelings also changes. Sometimes it strongly magnifies what your feeling which will end in everlasting love however there is only few in this world or it will change into nothingness. you'll just eventually fall out of love :)
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@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
25 Nov 07
I would like to think that my partner and I will love each other until the end of our days. We really are very well suited, but him being over 50 and me in my late 20's, the time we spend together will not be as long as I want. There are days when i can't stand having him around, but gee, I know that I can't have him any where but here. I'd do (and have) any thing and follow him any where. Love is an emotion that no one can really define fully.
@teretecho5 (190)
• United States
5 Jul 07
I used to say that to my ex but when she left me and had to moved on... I realize that FOREVER will never happen. FOREVER is infinite, our life is definitely not infinite because it does end for a reason that it really ends. :)
So if my partner will told me the she will love me FOREVER then I will definite not believe her but if she says that she will love me for a LIFETIME thats the only time to believe her.
@mohitgoyal50 (34)
• India
26 Jun 07
If someone tells that to me that he will love forever, i would not accept because I know after few years he will hate me.
I would accept if I trust him, and he is loving me from a long period of time.
@christinexo (3)
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26 Jun 07
I believe that if you love a person that you will always love them forever no matter what. Forever is such a long time and there could be bumps ahead of your relationships, i think it's just up to you.