Would you survive a long distance relationship?
By maybel13
@maybel13 (205)
Philippines
June 25, 2007 5:55am CST
For me, the best words that could describe a long distance relationships is 'challenging and difficult'. Inspite of this, many people choose to give a long distance relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decision to makeand if it even stands a chance.
A long distance relationship share the same facts as an average relationship though it does have its differences as well. It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent note, as well as the choice of being intimate whenever you desire, not to mention that there would be a major trust required.
For me, I can say that, I can survive a long distance relationship as long as you have the agreement of what your expectations are in the relationshipand how much of a commitment you are willing to give and receive. If the teo of you decide to be monogamous, then it is clear that neither of you will be dating anyone else as long as your romantic relationship exists. Being clear about what you want is extremely important, especially in a long distance relationship in order to prevent future misunderstandings and mistakes.
Also, trust is a major necessity if you wish to have a relationship from a distance. Without trust and honesty, the relationship is in fordanger and unsuccessfullness, just as it would be any other relationship. By accepting the challenge of a long distance relationship, you also accept the fact that you will have to have the trust and faith that your partner will not be seeing anyone else as promised. Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts, insecurity, and tension between you and none of those three will help the relationship survive successfully.
1 response
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
10 Jul 07
I have tried several long distance relationships and I am into one now.
I think I can survive this relationship because this a whole new level thing and not just for the sake of having a relationship or trial. It's more of we've found each other's company something that we need.
Trust is the biggest factor in these relationships and you have to understand that there are people who couldn't really express themselves in other mediums except face-to-face.
Lastly, prayers do help. It helps you be stronger.
but really, I know everything won't work. It takes the right people to do so.