Once a liar always a liar????

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Will a liar ever change? It's very painful and frustrating when someone you love and trusted lied to you. You love your partner so you find yourself forgiving his/her lies the first time, perhaps the second and third time as well, before you realize you are just involved in a liar. However, because you fell strongly for this person, it is not easy for you to break away, even though you know that is probably what is best for you. You hang on, with ope that things will change and he will not lie to you anymore. You justify staying with him by telling yourself that he is a good person and deep down you know he loves you- and that your relationship is wonderful and perfect except when he lies. What you need to ask yourself when this happens is: Do you consider a wonderful relationship one in which your partner lies to you? Is being lied to by a liar youridea of love and respect? When you are emotionally involved with someone, it is not always easy to ask and answer these logical questions. You often will make excuses to liar, just to make yourself feel better about staying with someone who does not truly respect you. For me, a liar is still a liar because if your partner can lie so easily over little things that are unnecessary to lie about, then you can be pretty sure that he/she will lie to you about bigger things that will really matter and damage the relationship.