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@JoeDeath (142)
Philippines
June 26, 2007 3:32am CST
Im 31 years old. Just brokeup with my gf. I don't feel that im in a hurry any other relationships, I don' wanna jump into one but yet there is a part in my brain saying that I have and need too. What does this mean?
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maictorek
@maictorek (83)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
maybe you're not really ready to get married but are pressured by culture, society, friends (or any other outside factors) to do so. ergo, the "need to" message by the brain.
JoeDeath
@JoeDeath (142)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Maybe your right.... Need to think about it hard. Sometimes its confusing. I guess its for the fact that I have problems going on in my life right now. Thanks.
maictorek
@maictorek (83)
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
hm... you do need space right now. hope you get past whatever's bother you. be safe.
JoeDeath
@JoeDeath (142)
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
yes yes.... I thought of it and I figure to give time for myself and the sorroundings.... Thanks guys...
disvachic
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
26 Jun 07
You said you just broke up with you girlfriend so maybe you are feeling lonely right now.If you feel you are not ready dont rush things make friends and be happy.When the time is right again for you then you will definitely know it.
disvachic
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
26 Jun 07
also welcome to mylot and i wish you luck here and also with your situation.take care!
JoeDeath
@JoeDeath (142)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
You have another good idea and advice disvachic. I thank you so much. Let me think about it and will get back to you here and tell you what I have thought. Thanks.
Junannci
@Junannci (8)
• China
26 Jun 07
Maybe you feel lonely, so just hope to have one accompany, but not gf who you must keep some relationships with.
blog8withJ
@blog8withJ (136)
• United States
26 Jun 07
There's more to life than getting married and there's more to have fun than thinking to have a girlfriend. Come on, get out and have fun. Don't think about the girls. Even if others think that life is not complete without a gf, think of it that life without a gf is freedom and look for something new. Rather someone new. You may explore your hobbies and stuff that you're interested. Come on dude, life is as great than to just having someone. Who knows? when you explore and have some fun outside, you can find someone who's on the corner and just right for you? Come on...come on...and get a life.
JoeDeath
@JoeDeath (142)
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
mmmm..... still confused my friend. Maybe I will find that someone, whether a gf or a friend. I will just take a time off everything.