Girls Making the First Move
By CopyPaper
@CopyPaper (228)
Philippines
June 26, 2007 7:48am CST
I am a girl, I have a boyfriend.
But how come guys always want to leave things in a mystery. They never quite confirming if they like someone or not. Well, there are some telltale signs that they like someone, like certain romantic moments or should we say a very touchy-feely actions. But more often than not they leave you wondering about their true motives. To the point that the girl herself would make the move and confss the feeling toward the guy.
How would a guy react on that? We're now on the modern world so it's okey for a girl to take the first move, is it?
3 responses
@xianthinne (85)
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
hi im a girl also well,,in my part yes ur right were in the modern world...this is the biggest probz of gurls coz they cant express their feelings well nor cant say to the guy that they fall in love,,its only actions unlike guys,they can trully express tru courting,saying 3 words etc...but we gurls,sometimes do action too just to attract ones guy attention tru flirting too..thats what gurls mostly can do ever...well,,nowadays,its not matter of all coz its now interchanging world u know..what guy can do gurls can do too...for me as girl,maybe just wait for guys to do first move in order to maintain our pace,our dignity...dignity for me still important that guys will show u respect like a fragile things....if ever guys shows doubting actions,y not confronting him right?whats the matter w/ that?just simple....
@CopyPaper (228)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
I know that its really to embarassing being a girl making the first move. But I don't really care, as long as I told him about my feelings.
What made me confused is that why would a guy can't let that word out?
@CopyPaper (228)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
You might be right, we really don't know what are they (guys) thinking. We can't just predict what will happened next if we girl won't take the move.
@xianthinne (85)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
oh maybe those guy felt shy to do so...yes theres some of guys shows only actions that also confused us...but thats love all about mostly it does in actions not in words...anyway if guys felt the same way too then that time surely frank his feelings towards you...if u observed gentle actions w/ him that confused you if hes in love w/ you then u felt the same too,,why not show him on too?im sure guy will says you 3 words at that time...mostly guys just waiting for the ryt time u know....
@J_e_R_y_L_e (37)
• Philippines
20 Aug 07
i don't think so...i'm not very modern when it comes to these issues...i still think that the men should make the first move..most gurls actually misinterpret nonverbal cues from men...
@CopyPaper (228)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
Yes, it might be true for some. But they are girls out there who's more liberated than men.
@manban786 (13)
• India
26 Jun 07
If you are a girl and you like or love a guy,then you shouldn't wait for his response and clearly tell your feelings to him.It may be possible that you mis read his feelings for you and consequently you may lose your love because of communication gap.So,go and tell him.
@CopyPaper (228)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
I still don't understand why would the guy wait the girl to make a move though he just show some motives without telling her that he loves her.
