Do you trust marriages through matrimonial sites?
By rakhii
@rakhii (1302)
India
June 26, 2007 10:25am CST
My parents are looking for a proposal for me. So we are nowadays searching through matrimonial sites. Is joining these sites worth or not? Should we trust on proposals that we get through the matrimonial sites?
4 responses
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
Something that comes easy usually lasts for a short time too.
In these days where everyone can just say 'i love you' in a flicker of an eye, relationships don't really last that long.
People no longer tend to try and patch things up, or try to change or make things well.
In a generation of internet, instant food, and instant coffees and all that's 'instant' everybody starts to get lazy to do things in the long-run.
A little problem then bam! divorce.
So for me, I doubt these sites would make a good way to start a relationship as husband and wife.
It takes effort to make a marriage work, we can all start by having a proper relationship and getting married properly and not instantly.
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@jmathen (112)
• India
26 Jun 07
You cannot say all the proposals given on matrimonial sites are not trustworthy. Some of them are genuine. But you must be very careful in inquiring about the details. The information given on the site can be used as a lead to know the facts. In other words, if you are moving forward with a proposal which is not taken from a site, how would you proceed??? Definitely, you would go into a search of details, right??? Just do the same in this matter too. Visiting matrimonial sites is not so harmful because you will get lot of options that are out there, very interesting ones. The only thing is do a good inquiry about the person's family. Hope you will find someone pretty soon....Wish you all the best !
@pankajdantla (996)
• India
18 Jul 07
I not believe in this site because we don't know the person particaularly first we have to know the family backgroud and the person behavior that we can live with he/she for whole life...........
@billabadmash (1011)
• Pakistan
26 Jun 07
Nops they are not worth joining now as 90% of the profiles are fake and managed by the company that own the site so i think it is just the waste of time, efforts and money:)
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