How do you answear when your young child asks?
@marshall_blake2000 (304)
United States
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@mmorgan100 (66)
• United States
26 Jun 07
LOL! I went through that too, only mine was 6. I kept it simple and just told him it takes a mommy and a daddy to make a baby and left it at that. I told him if he wanted to know more, he'd have to wait till he was older.
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@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
27 Jun 07
I would have said that its all the magic of God and he knew every thing better than any of us does and you will know that when you get married.
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
27 Jun 07
Tell him plainly that your brother is coming to play with you, do not hide children are more intelligent these days, let him understand.
@ashamilee (64)
• United States
28 Jun 07
I just had a similar conversation with my four year old. I'm due in August and she wanted to know how the baby was going to get out. I told her. "Well, she's going to come out of mommies privates". GASP - jaw hits the floor "nu-uh" "Nu-huh kiddo. Or if she can't come out that way the doctor will give mommy a c-section, which is where they cut the baby out of my tummy".
I didn't think she believed me. So I made her watch a baby story with me the next day. She doesn't want to have babies now.
@dreamjapan (409)
• Japan
27 Jun 07
My 5 year old daughter asked me that question as well. The way she asked made me laugh, "Do you make a hole to put the baby inside the mommys tummy?" I'm afriad I coped out and told her that when she was older I would tell her all about it. The problem is I gave her the same answer when she was asking about napkins. I have a lot of explaining to do when she gets older. I think a 7 year can understand the concept that it takes a mommy and daddy to make a baby.
Actually as I write this I'm wondering how come kids today are asking such questions at young ages. Even though I'm the eldest in my family and I remember my Mom having my younger brother, I was 4, I never asked how the baby got there. It just was. I think I was like 10 or so when I started wondering about these things. Have kids today lost inoncense(sp?) or was I a totally naieve?
Sorry I hijacked your question but that just came to me.
dreamjapan
@ashamilee (64)
• United States
28 Jun 07
I think at four our brains just accept what adults tell us. Had the baby come when you were six, you probably would have asked more questions.
@mmorgan100 (66)
• United States
26 Jun 07
LOL! I went through that too, only mine was 6. I kept it simple and just told him it takes a mommy and a daddy to make a baby and left it at that. I told him if he wanted to know more, he'd have to wait till he was older.