A friend of mine wants to pay for my hair cut.........
By Magikrose
@magikrose (5429)
United States
June 26, 2007 4:04pm CST
The thing is what I want is not going to be cheap. what I am after is to have my hair cut to shoulder leingth which is not a problem. The part that is going to get expensive is the coloring. See what I want is Black with Teal underneith and a teal streak in the front on my left side.
Now understand I am married and this friend is male. I have known him for 23yrs. Since elementary school and we have beel the best of friends. He is also married.
My question is should I let him pay for this salon visit or just wait?
Picture of what I want below.
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5 responses
@motherof35108 (192)
• United States
26 Jun 07
if your husband doesn't think you are cheating on him then you should. ok
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
27 Jun 07
The thing is my husband is the jelous type even tho he knows I am devoted to him and I am only friends with this guy. I forgot the pic so I am showing it here.
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@tmlnmr (1850)
• Canada
27 Jun 07
Ahh well then I would have to ask you that is getting this hair cut sooner worth your relationship with your husband? You know he is the jealous type so it will likely cause problems. Maybe not now but in the future. I would say wait until you can pay for it yourself. I was trying to picture it and wasn't so sure but now that I see the pic I am sure you will look awesome when it is done! :)
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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27 Jun 07
hi friend,
I guess it depends how much you trust your friend? I would be inclined to accept if say he was a gay man, however if there was even the slightest inference that it was to mean anything more than what it presents to be i would treat it with extreme caution. If he is married too, it might be a good idea to run it by his wife first
Blessed be
@motherof35108 (192)
• United States
27 Jun 07
Well the best of luck with you and your "Friend". What ever happens happens. If "He" pays for it then "He" pays for it and you are lucky. I would not ask another man to pay for something that I want if I was married. I would ask my husband if we can afford it can I get it done. "He" has a family to support and think of first and "He" should talk it over with his "Wife" first before "He" goes and does this for you.
@motherof35108 (192)
• United States
27 Jun 07
i think that your husband should pay for it and not "him". that is out of courtesy of your husband and not your friend. that is if your husband can afford it. it not then i would not even ask your friend to pay for it because it is not fair to your husband and it will start an agruement between you too and you know it will. i am sorry but if your are married you should be telling your friend that you and your husband will find away to pay for it and if you do not then it was not meant to be.that is my appinion. i'm not even married and i would not let a friend pay for something that i know will be costly and nowing that he has a family to support.but what ever the decision is not mine so like i said before if it happens then it happens and the best of luck with the two of you and "your friendship"
@franziska (410)
• Italy
23 Nov 07
I wouldn't accept money from my best friend if I were married.. I think a similar choice could offend your husband or his wife. It's better if you pay yourself the hairdresser or if you ask to your husband this special gift.
