do you think can i have a normal life like before i come to this trip?

@crosa125 (1483)
June 26, 2007 4:54pm CST
well as the most of you my friends know i started a trip to around the world since few months ago,we have seen a lot of places,and a lot of things you won't even believe they do exist,we found it in most places you ans work even without knowing their language that much,how ever won't get rich but you will have enough to pay for your expenses,two of us ,they've already lost their jobs,one of us has fallen for some one and when we go back home he is going to move to Turkey with her,just me and some one else left nothing that much happend to us,however if i go back home it's going to take a while till my business turn to normal,and i just worry is not going to be like normal ever again,it is a great experience but does it worth to risk our normal daily life for it?hey....i think i've missed home and i want to go back home but they don't want to yet,deep down there are still a lot places i want to see to but i really don't know what to do leave them here in india and come back to uk?!....hey my great friends what would you do if you were me?would you go with them or you would say enough is enough and would go back home?....love you all
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@yeenee (133)
• Malaysia
27 Jun 07
hi crosa125, i think you should go back if that is what you are thinking now. however completing a mission would be great but that's not necessary if you do not want to. if i were you, i will do my best to complete the mission and go back with no regret!
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@crosa125 (1483)
29 Jun 07
hi,how are you? well that's exactly how i feel but i don't really know what to do?
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
27 Jun 07
Seems like it is time for you to go home to your obligations. I think it grand that you were able to take off and live a bit. All good things must end and I feel that this experience will make you a better person. It will show in our well you treat your business and loved ones at home. I like that you are computing again and that you can talk to these 'freinds' and they understand that it is time for you to return to your real life. I look forward to many a good discussion made by you.
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
29 Jun 07
There must be some reason you are asking. Sounds like something is amiss and perhaps it is time to return and take care of business. Again you say you don't know what to do yet you ask us. I say return home and part on good terms. You may get another grand trip in the future and maybe compare the times. Good luck deciding.
@crosa125 (1483)
29 Jun 07
my dear friend,hi,i have to say, it's not esy to believe but where ever i was and i am my heart is with my family and my friends,i do missed my home and my life but if i don't leave my friends in here right now i have to stay with them for another few months,i don't really know what to do it was hard to come and start this trip and now is harder to finish it. thank you love
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@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
27 Jun 07
Hey c125, What an adventure! I know I'd go home if I were in your situation-your family & friends there want you home I'm sure. Good luck to you whatever you choose +'s 2 U :D
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@crosa125 (1483)
29 Jun 07
i have to tell you love i'm really enjoying my trip but i don't know if i keep going this way am i getting uesd to this lif or not?i missed every one and every one missed me too,but still there is a big BUT cheers
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@maribea (2366)
• Italy
27 Jun 07
it seems that you have had one of those experience that can change your life..but I think that if you are here talking about your country and how much you miss it..well this means that you have found anything in the whole world important enough to tempt you..I mean you will profit from this travel, it will be part of your inner richness but travels are meant to start and end and maybe now it is time to come back home and maybe add something new and exotic and brilliant to your everyday life..
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@crosa125 (1483)
29 Jun 07
my dear friend,thank you for that,can i tell you i'm a Persian and my real country is Iran but for 8years i lived in UK and my life is in there,this is the question,have i born to live and learn? or have i born to work and earn?thank you for your help,i hope one day i could make it up to yous,cheers
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@maribea (2366)
• Italy
29 Jun 07
my friend, I think that our place in the world is the one our heart belongs to. you have to listen to your heart and so you will find your answer. I need my work because my job is part of my life and i need to find my place in the world and a career, even a little one, for me. you seem very different from me, but your heart will tell you what to do..if you like living like this, travelling all around the world, you can do this..if you need to have a house and a place you can call yours, you have to find a place you can call HOME. have a nice day and I hope to hear from you soon. I will love to receive news from your travel!!!
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
27 Jun 07
I would prolly say I'm going home but it's entirely up to you, my friend. If you still have places you want to see, then go for it cause you may never get the chance to see them again. Enjoy the rest of your trip. :-)
@crosa125 (1483)
29 Jun 07
thanks a lot love,i would keep that in mind,give your cat a kis from me plz
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
27 Jun 07
I would say continue your adventure as you still have many places to see. Then you can go home with lots of photos of your wonderful trip. I know how you feel. I went around the world and had completed my time in Cairns so I thought I would fly to Darwin, then Singapore and after that home. But a friend wanted me to stay so I did for a while. I travelled back down to Brisbane and Sydney. Then I travelled up to Cairns again, putting my arrival in Darwin in the wet season. This was such fun, hot, sticky and wet with thunder and lightening. Then I had a wonderful adventure travelling around South East Asia. I don't regret making my trip longer. When I came home nothing was the same and it took me a month or so to be happy again. However it was lovely to see all the people and animals I had missed during my year away.
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@crosa125 (1483)
29 Jun 07
thank you for your great advice and sharing your wonderful experience,that is the exact situation which i am now,and i don't really know what to do ,as i said my friends are going to stay in this trip a bit more but.....
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