love

Philippines
June 27, 2007 1:48am CST
why do you think people easily get hurt when they heard something negative about their partner?
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4 responses
adinapunk
@adinapunk (84)
• Romania
27 Jun 07
cause we make in our minds a perfect image about our partner. and if we hear something bad about him, we think that it could not be possible, cause we see him perfect in some way. we just have to stop making this perfect image, and see him like any other human who can make mistakes
SONALIKA
@SONALIKA (573)
• India
27 Jun 07
hi pretty,it is so because whom we love we idealize them as there can never be anything wrong about them but at heart we know that they are also humans.to err is human,so when anybody speaks against them our imge about them crushes and it hurts.but if you believe them it won't hurt.
asmurthy
@asmurthy (2461)
• India
27 Jun 07
The lovers think that their partners are perfect. But when they hear some thing wrong about the partner they get hurt. welcome to mylot community. Go through mylot guidelines and read throughly and follow it to the letter. Happy mylotting.
lovelydame3000
@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
27 Jun 07
Hi pretty_eva13! I love my friends.I can't tolerate anything bad been told about any of my friends. I am possesive about those who are close to me too.