Come here,my friends.....make a choice..

China
June 27, 2007 12:15pm CST
If one day you will lose one thing,including 1.lover. 2.parents. 3.friendship 4.wealth. Maybe it is a dilemmatic question.....it is tough to make a choice...but you have to do it.... what will you choose to lose firstly?
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33 responses
@emckee (465)
• United States
27 Jun 07
Easy answer for me, I don't happen to have wealth in the first place (monetarily speaking) but I would choose to lost this first either way.
• China
28 Jun 07
you are right..hehe..thank you.
• India
3 Jul 07
Well i will choose to loose all my wealth for the rest three are the true wealth i possess.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
3 Jul 07
If I have to lose...amongst all the things you mentioned....it may be a 'lover'. I would not like to lose others.
• Singapore
3 Jul 07
1st: Lover 2nd: friendship 3rd: wealth 4th: parents
@heartsick (832)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
it would be wealth.. coz i can earn it here in my lot.. hehehe,,
@sharon_ (1169)
• United States
29 Jun 07
Friends...My parents are deceased, I'm still waiting on my true love, and If I ever do have any wealth to speak of I wouldn't want my so called friends to be dipping in to it!!
• India
28 Jun 07
I will loose my wealth. Because it can be earned at anytime, if we have our parents, friends and relatives with us. They can help us to earn wealth. But with wealth alone, we cant earn people.
28 Jun 07
Wealth. Easily take it way, it isn't important. I think money is an object which drives to many people into greed and nothing but selfishness. (not everyone of course) although I do think it's evil. :) Take away friendship to.. All I need is my wife and family and my parents :) ~Joey
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
29 Jun 07
That is "friendship" I would choose to lose if I had to. Friendship once lost can be found in some other way by making new friends who share the same interest and hobby. We keep on encounting new friends daily and we still have many chances to find new friendship. Once your lover is lost, you will be plunged into deep sadness for a long time as you will find it a difficult job to fall in love with another one if you have really put your heart on her. Parents are the most important to me. They give me life and bring me up. Most importantly, they are the most valuable asset that I can possess. I can't imagine how I can live without them. Wealth is of great importance. With wealth, we can do things based on our will. A better life is not an easy thing without wealth, let alone an apartment of your own to build up your happy home, which is the basic need in life. Of course, that is only assumption only. In reality, I hate to anything that is needed. Friendship is always what I need, without which I feel myself in the dark not knowing where the advancing way should lead to. Thanks for your topic, Tracy.
@jezzmay (1845)
• United States
29 Jun 07
On this one I did not chooes to loose either,but I have lost all.
@rakhii (1302)
• India
28 Jun 07
I would say that I cant loose anything out of them. Its easy to say, but when it comes to actually losse, we are not able to do that. People say that they will loose wealth if have to loose anyone of them, but its not the truth. Money would be the last to loose. Believe me! So, I would say I wont loose anything out of them. Thanks!
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
28 Jun 07
Hello tracy1985, Did you mention husband/partner/spouse/soulmate? Well, I am lucky though... :) Lover doesn't count as one of those that I mentioned above, am I right? If you add husband to the list, I will definitely have a problem to choose which I want to let go first (hard to decide between my mom and hubby!) Well, let me arrange those according to my list : 1.The first to go is definitely wealth. I don't need too much money in my life but I still need some to survive :) 2. Lover will be the next. I don't need a lover when I am in need. I just need a peace of mind. Lover might brings some kind of problem to me which I should try to avoid as possible as I can :) 3. Well, it is hard to lose a friendship but if I have no choice left, I will let it go voluntarily. Maybe, I will find better friends in future. It is possible, I know that :) 4. Parents are the ones that I will never let go (apart from a good husband like mine ha ha ha) No matter how hard life is to me, I still treasure my parents. Nothing can replace them. I can find money, friends and 1001 lovers but not a mother or a father as good as mine :)
• United States
28 Jun 07
with a thought it would be wealth 1st unless i had a frienfship that was already shaky.
@xuliwei (260)
• China
28 Jun 07
I would never choose to lose parents or lover,so friendship and wealth are left.That depends.For a dig sum of money I would choose to lose friend ship.But I will get that sum of money lawfully.I think my friendship won't conflict with my choice to choose wealth.
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
28 Jun 07
i don't need my friends as much as my hubby, parents and money. i like my friends but it's a perk, so is wealth, but i think keeping friends is selfish b/c my family wouldn't benefit from it as much as they would the money.
@sallyxu126 (1184)
• China
28 Jun 07
4.wealth I think it is not a hard question for most of the people, and I also see some other's answer, I think most of us will choose 4.wealth . yes, money is important in life,but it is not the most important thing in life, all lover.parents.friendship are more important than money . we can earn money later, if we give up wealth . but if we give up our lover.parents.friendship, it is hard to get them back, and we lose the most important wealth in our life. Lover is one who stay with you in all your life ,take good care of you, cook for you when you are ill, bring up child with you , and so on . you are partner, and you love each other. parent is is whom give your birth, and teach you how to live in life . and they pay their great effort to bing up you. friendship is another wealth of your life, you can trust your friend and get help from them. so all of them we could not give up, as we love them .
• United States
28 Jun 07
Not a hard question, I do not like my parents so if I lose them it will be no be deal. My mom is nothing but a selfish pain in my butt whom I hate, and my dad does not know how to talk to me nor does he even try. I already consider I have not parents so it would not hurt.
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
I would definitely chose my 'Parents' first, and no matter if I lost every wealth around and riches...but what's more important thing for me is my parents presence and company.
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
None of the above, It happens to be that im a poor boy, my father was deceased, i have many friends but no real friends, and i have no lover. For those who prefers to lose wealth, most of them are liars and a few is true. It's just a beauty of tongue and easy to say. Just ask Bill Gates to confirm my stance.
@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
wealth.. if i have evryting with me but dont have my love-ones with me...it's lonely.. :)