Love

August 4, 2006 4:37am CST
What is love between a man and a woman. Please can someone explain. I thought I knew what it was - but I don't think so any more. I yearn for it so much my heart aches..... Does the fairytale of love really exist?????????
1 response
@HARLANA (96)
• United States
5 Aug 06
Yes, love does exist. It starts within you first. I am a true believer that people come into your lives for a reason good or bad and every relationship is a lesson that most often we don't learn from so we tend to repeat the same pattern. When you can look at that man and know his soul, when you can allow him to show you himself a his most vulnerable state, when he is in touch with both his masculine and feminine sides to the point he knows your needs better then you do, when you know that even if he were unable to care for himself physically you'd still stay by his side and vice versa, when you are willing to sacrifice with him when he's had financial or even job related set backs and you see he is doing his best to get back on his feet, when you can give him his space without wondering what the hell he is doing all the time, when he can look at you daily and find something more beautiful about you then the day before, when you can chill out and watch the game with him and he doesn't mind, when your heart honestly tells you this one is a keeper instead of your brain. That to me are signs of love between a man and a woman but of course the sprectrum goes well beyond that. Follow your heart sweetie it will be more honest then your mind if only you'd listen.
• United States
26 Oct 06
Why thanks. I must say as I wrote this I was in tears as I just about am now re-reading this and thinking about the man in my life that I love with all my soul so thanks for your comment.